Lady X's blog: "Truth"

This has just gotten out of hand......boredom.

Why is it when we get bored we find an insesive need to be validated buy others?

I am very happy with being me and yet on occation, find my self needing the validation also. Is it a nother human nature thing or am I off and need help with something deeper.

This seems stupid I am sure and then to others may seem to "deep" lol, but it is what I am thinking rite now.

I am just bored and regardless of wanting to go out and do something, being married or having kids.......I do it all and still wind up with some level of boredom. Maybe I need something more?

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Love this shot...lol.

 

I just don't understand the crap one has to put up with on accation. the caliber in wich you have to put up with it and what the he#* is wrong with the people who dish it out. I don't put up with a lot and you have to be someone I really care for to put up with any of it but dam#, I still just don't get it. Am I so out of the ordanary that I tell people whats on my mind? That I don't and wont suger coat it for them to be able to swallow it easer? If you care for someone would you suger coat the things that you are right up front with? I don't see why you should have to and I know for one I am tired of the men in my life having so many dam@ issues with my bluntness. I'm demasculating....puhhh grow up! You can suger me up and act all smart and then later the truth comes out! I want a REAL one! So theres my sencless rant....ty for reading it.

There has always been a wonder in the back of my mind, what is more of an asset........beauty or brains? Truth be told I think there is a lot to say about having both.....it does exist! It seems though that in todays world there is very little acceptance of a woman (or man for that matter) who is both good looking and brilliant. Then to make things worse, some of us have to throw in honesty. Well what the hell were we thinkin' when we did that! People say that they are honest and they don't play games but the truth be told, there are very few who are. Call me bluntly honest and a few other choice words some of you dimmer bulbs come up with but, I'll take being smart and honest any day!

To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait" To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful." To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state) to see her. To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick. To every guy who has given her flowers just because. To every guy that said he would die for her. To every guy that really would. To every guy that did what she wanted to do. To every guy that cried in front of her. To every guy that she cried in front of. To every guy that holds hands with her. To every guy that kisses her with meaning. To every guy that hugs her when she's sad. To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all. To every guy who would give their jacket up for her. To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe. To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes To every guy that would give his seat up. To every guy that just wants to cuddle. To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what. To every guy who told his secrets to her. To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath. To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one. To every guy that believed in her dreams. To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them. To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams. To every guy that walked her to her car. To every guy that gave his heart. To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her. ...This one bulletin is for you... Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore... And because of this, there are not many left out there... i guarantee 90% of the men on your page will not repost this cuz they care more about their image If you are a nice guy repost this with "We're a Dying Breed " If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way repost this with: "To Every Guy

When did honesty and telling it like you see it become a crime? I just think that life is to preciouse and short to bother.