Lil Sexy's blog: "Thinking out loud!"

A few days ago my Chihuahua Tequila died. She was my baby. She was sick for 2 days, she took her last breath Monday morning. I am devastated!

There are so many religions in this world, why do we criticize someone’s faith because it is not our own? I am of the Wiccan religion, yet Christians say I’m going to hell because I don’t believe and worship the same as them. No matter what the religion or their convictions, don’t judge them because you believe different. If I am going to hell, the Christian judging will be seated next to me. Just because I may not have quite the same beliefs, doesn’t make you any different than me. Why would my faith have such an affect on someone? Your beliefs aren’t better than mine, and my beliefs aren’t better than yours. I’m not criticizing you, don’t condemn me!

If a woman has sex with 10 men, she is a whore. If a man has sex with 10 women, he’s “The Man”. Why is this? Just because a woman has a strong sex drive? Why should women be categorized so differently than men, in the same situation? If a man is praised for the number of sexual partners he has had, so should a woman. If a woman is a whore because of her number of sexual partners, so is a man.

When someone’s life expires, for whatever reason it may be, people always tells the family that “it will get better”. Why would you say that, unless you have no heart at all. The only way it will get better is if I didn’t care that it happened. You may, in due time, learn to cope with the death, but it NEVER gets better. I understand that one reason you would say this is because you believe it will make me somehow feel better, but it doesn’t. “It will get better” doesn’t make the hurt, the pain, or the anger subside, and it never will. Never tell someone it will get better, primarily at the funeral but anytime, anywhere. No matter how long it has been since the passing. If you feel the need to say anything at all, say, “I’m sorry for your loss.”.

When you meet someone new, and your getting to know each other, another question that always pops up is “Do you have kids?”. You have a deceased child. The conversation goes like this… “Do you have kids?” “I have a daughter/son, but they passed away.” “Oh, I am so sorry. I know what you’re going through.” Do you really know what I am going through? Did your child die? Unless this has happened to you, don’t, under any circumstances, say that you know what I am going through. Because you don’t. If you have lost a child in a custody battle, you still don’t know what I am going through. So don’t say you do! No matter how long it has been since the passing. The same goes for any death of family or close friends. If I say a parent passed away, and both of your parents are still alive, you don’t know what I am going through.

When you meet someone new, and your getting to know each other, primarily if they are of the opposite sex, the question of marital status ALWAYS pops up. The conversation goes like this… “Are you married?” “No, I’m divorced.” “Oh, I’m sorry.” Why the hell would you be sorry that I’m divorced? Before now, we were complete strangers. It isn’t your fault that I’m divorced, and 98% of divorced people aren’t sorry that they are divorced. So why are you? If I was sorry that I got divorced, I wouldn’t be talking to you dumbass!

When someone is in a contest, people should help them out. If someone in my friends' list is in a contest, I do my best to comment them as much as I can when I get the chance. But noone wants to return the love. What the hell is the fucking deal? If you can't help me for a contest, then I'm not going to help you. So if you have no intention to comment my contest pics, don't bother to ask me to do the same for you!

The Solemn Line I was lost in a dream With the key in my hand Fitting it in Was a rule that didn't stand. You had the answer That I couldn't find, You entered my dream, Leaving the answer behind. Thank you is an understatement I'll make it up in time. But until I make it up to you, I'll walk the solemn line.