Rules to live by...
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1. If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If
she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay!
2. Stop making excuses for a woman and her behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
that's not meant to be.
5. Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a woman before you find what
makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the woman was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be
friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she
probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship
is you.
12. Avoid women who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different men. She didn't marry them when she
got pregnant, why would she treat you any
differently?
13. Always have your own set of friends separate from
hers.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a girl treats you. If
something bothers you, SPEAK UP.
15. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it
against you later.
16. You cannot change a woman's behaviors. Change comes
from within.
17. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than
you are...even if she has more education or in a better
job.
18. Do not make her into a quasi-god. She is a woman,
NOTHING MORE..NOTHING LESS.
19. Never let a woman define who you are.
20. Never borrow someone else's woman.
21. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
22. A woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW her to
treat you.
23 . All women are NOT bitches, they just act like it.
24. You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two way street.
25. You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
27. Dating is fun...even if she doesn't turn out to be
Miss Right.
28. Make her miss you sometimes...when a woman always
knows where you are, and your always readily available
to her- she takes it for granted.
29. Never move into her house.
30. Never co-sign for a woman. (Hallelujah, thank you
Jesus!)
31. Don't fully commit to a woman who doesn't give you
everything that you need. Keep her in your radar but
get to know others.