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created on 06/25/2022  |  http://fubar.com/the-world/b372675

Destiny

 Destiny is not a matter of chance...it's a matter of choice. You choose how you react to the things around you and you choose how you behave in the end...I believe that we met in this lifetime by chance, we became friends by choice, and by taking a big chance we might see where it could go from here. No one falls in love by choice, it's by a chance...No one stays in love by chance, it's by effort...And no one falls out of love by effort...it's by choice. Always live your life to the fullest. If that means taking chances...then take them. If Love might be a mistake...be willing to make it... if you get the choice to sit or dance please choose to dance...Don't let fear stop you from living, or the next thing you know, life will have passed you by and you will have lost your chance...In life we all make decisions...some are good while others may leave us thinking why did I do that? We need to concentrate on the good ones and laugh off the bad...We all are touched by the good times and we should learn from the bad times...It's up to us to make that change a positive or negative...Your happiness should never be derived from the situation that you are in...but rather from the attitude you have...I feel that no matter how dark the moment or the situation may be, love and hope are always possible...Make the right decision to make this a better world always for the better good. A Beautiful Spirit is the one that Loves no matter what and expects nothing in return..."A cheerful heart is a good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person's strength." Proverbs 17:22...

 

 

I'm at the point in my life where I don't expect too much from people anymore.
 If you dont want to be in my life, I will not stop you. If unfriending me makes you happy, please....do just that. 
If the efforts I make do not get reciprocated, that’s perfectly fine.
 If you can’t equate my love for you, I will respect that. If you do not like me, I can accept that.
It takes maturity to reach this point. It takes self-love to be on this level. It is just that it is too tiring to please people. It is so tiring to beg for people to be a part of your life. It is pointless to force someone to be on the same page with you.
I am at the point in my life where if you stay, you’re mine, and if you are not, then I let go. It is too tiring to keep on forcing things to happen. It is too painful to see your efforts getting unnoticed. It is not worth it to beg for someone just to let them see how much you love them. It is not worth chasing people because you deserve better. 
It is too unnecessary to force friendships. It is too tiring to make reconciliation for people who do not deserve it. Do not regret anything, especially if you made efforts to make it work in the past. 
Focus on your life. Focus on people who love you. Embrace change. After all, that is the only thing constant in this world.
Take my advice and surround yourself with people who truly want the best for you and your mental health.
Your circle matters.

We all have times when we feel like we don't even know who we are. We don't know how we got to the place we are in life or how things changed so quickly. But when you find your person, you find someone who somehow knows you better than you know yourself. They know what you're thinking before you even say it. They know what that little voice in the back of your mind is saying and how to make it disappear. They know how you really feel about a situation no matter how much you may be faking it. When you find your person, you find someone who can read your mind and someone who can tell you why you're in a weird mood before you even know you're in a weird mood. Even when you may feel lost and confused, your person is there to redirect back to you who truly are. That's what makes this person.

We all want to be believed in. It is in our nature to desire love and encouragement from those around us. We strive for comfort and for someone to care for us. When you find your person, they will never stop believing in you. Even when you feel like no one thinks you can do it or you don't even believe in yourself, they are right there cheering you on. This person never puts you down because they know you need someone there to push you forward and to encourage you to keep going. That's what makes this person your person.

  Some days it just feels like no one around us gets it. People don't understand how we feel and they don't understand what we need. But it's different when you find your person. They know exactly what to say and how to make you feel better. They know exactly what is wrong and how to fix it immediately. This person gets you. They understand how you are in every situation, emotion, and state of mind. They know what you're saying even if you don't think you're making any sense. They understand your feelings and emotions even if they change 100 times in an hour. That's what makes this person your person.

 

 'We've all been given up on at some point in our lives. We all know how it feels and we hate it. What's even worse is that sometimes we give up on ourselves. We feel like there's no point in moving forward and we'd honestly just rather stay in bed and watch Netflix all day. The amazing thing about finding your person is that they are the one person who will never give up on you. They will turn off your TV pull you out of bed, and bring you back to reality just because they know you are worth more than that. Even if you hurt them, they won't give up on you because they know you are worth it and they want you to know that too. The most reassuring thing in the world is knowing that someone is there for you who will never give up on you like everyone else has. That's what makes this person your person. I am thankful to have my Person!! Click Picture

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