A thought about what you are looking for in life...or in any man/woman...I understand you all have the right to look for a man/woman in an age range that suits your desires, however, do not close your mind to just that window, there is no garuntees that you will find a man/woman in that stage of life that has the maturity you are looking for, age is just a number in many cases. Look for what makes you happy in your heart and that you accept eachother as you each are with out changing the other to fit your bill of expectations. If or when a person decides to change it will and must come with in, while supporting them in that change is encouraged, however forcing the matter is not! It may come in plateaus in periods of time that the person is comfortable with, and if you truely love the person, set them free, if they come back to you or stay with you, it is meant to be. If the person does not come back, you have made a significant impact in their lives and be proud that you helped that person better themselves, learn from it, and appreciate that you were able to make an impact on their lives, and never regret that time you spent with them even for one moment even if they made you made you smile or laugh just once, they some how made you happy, and that as is life is a miracle!