Why are people so stupid as to tell someone how to live their lives? Are they serrious or what. i had someone tell me that dating a man that is 20yrs older than me was wrong and i was going to hell....so be it. Then had someone else tell me that i shouldnt date people off the net, hello, not like i'm jumping into bed with them after i say hello. And whats this shit about i HAVE to go to church or i'm not going to heaven. Who said i was going anyway? my spirit is going to walk the earth as long as it wants, i'm not planning on going to heaven or hell. This religion shit, give me a fucking break. i dont believe in one religion, i believe in one higher being, but whoever that is i choose to worship is my own damn business. Now, let me get on my gay soapbox, who gives a rats ass if i've slept with women or men? its my damn choice. i make choices everyday that piss people off, so be it. i choose to have sex with another woman, i choose to put a hole in my nose, belly and ears, i choose to have kids with someone that was married when our first was born and 20yrs older than me, and i choose to tell people to go fuck themselves if they dont agree with me. ok, i think i'm done...lol