First i would like to say that iam not a bitter black women, I,ve been threw some things but i have come through victorious and it was only GOD. Iam 39 yrs old i have 4 kids ages 16- 21. I,ve been in two bad marriages and i thank GOD for helping me get out of them both. It has all been a learning experience for me, I don,t look at men the same meaning that i there are some really good men out there and i know that now, I ,ve met quite a few but iam choose to take it slow. i stay busy by working alot, i have two jobs and i like them both, and and the rest of my time is spent in church.