Spaghetti's blog: "*~*Simply me*~*"

Im in the mood to blog so here goes nothing......I wanted to share whats been on my mind lately, could be a good thing or bad, just depending really lol...anyways..Im forever getting asked "are u single" , well yes I am...Im actually single by choice, just havent found what Im looking for YET. Im not one to jump into any kind of relationship, Im too afraid of getting hurt, so I take my time lol its the same for friendships too. It takes alot for me to trust ya..I will in time and then I'll be hard to get rid of lol. OMG, the next ?? is "what do I look for in a man" really?? god, this one gets on my nerves...I dont have a certain list that I go by, it just happens. But I do like a VERY STRONG MINDED man,  big big plus...if not I WILL and HAVE walked all over them, I loss all respect for them. I want him to tell me NO sometimes and mean it;)..I dont wanna be spoiled all the time, what fun is that.  I like a sense of humor, ROMANTIC (showing up with wild flowers and a pop, I;ll melt). A hard worker, love my man to get all sweaty and dirty, god is that fuckin sexy!!!  I do push away the ones I like cause I wanna see if they have "true" feelings or "lust" feelings..I want them to not fall for that and DEMAND my attention!!! ....next ?? yes, I am 30:(:(:(  lol and I have a 13 year old daughter...I was a teenage mommy, hardest job ever, I missed out on alot but not once have I ever regreted it, I love my princess, my world. I was married in r/l for 7 yrs to a very abusive man, he beat me pretty much every day..I have scars inside and out( my face, Im suprised no one has ever said anything lol he broke my nose, I have scars above both eyes and I do have pics but will never show them, too gruesome)...I have to say this, he made me into a very strong woman today, I can take care of myself...I took self denfense classes, learned to shoot (I do own a gun)..NEVER AGAIN!!.

As for Fubar, Ive been here over 2 yrs now and I have a love/hate relationship with it but then I think everyone has one. I try to return the love on here sometimes its hard for me cause I DO WORK and come home to take care of my daughter, ...neat huh:P maybe some of these bishes need to try it  sometime lol I also OWN my own home (paid in full, yayyyy me)...Ive started remodeling, ugh...what a pain:(...anyways, if I dont return ur rate, just shout me, no biggie I will..as for the begging , come on really, if u dont like someone begging all the time, then hit the damn delete button and STFU!!!  Everyone beggs to a pt...rates, "like", pimpouts, drinks, love, who cares...let them, shit I do lol...The one that cracks me up is crushs, god, I wish I could turn mine off...DONT CRUSH ME, I'll only break ur heart!!!  Oh and now the famp....u wont hurt my feelings by taking me outta ur family to add someone who is willing to "pay" for a add,  I dont care, really lol as for NSFW, yes I have them, they are for my family only...but I dont even think they care to even look lol but I love them....I do have my Fu men that I fuckin adore....My Rabbit, Jugger, Kage, Hillbilly Delux, I got the MAGICTOUCH....I didnt name all of them so plz dont get butthurt if I didnt mention ya...anyways..my SB is open, leave me a chat sometime, I promise I dont bite, well maybe alil;)...this is it for now..I'll add more when I think about more lol

love and kisses Sheri

I sit and wonder if u truly notice me.....we chat back and forth, but thats as far as it goes. U say u like me but how can I be sure. My heart has been shattered and Im terrified to love again?? Im always the girl waiting in the wings instead of center stage....U can say its my fault thou,  Im way to scared of rejection when it comes to matters of the heart. Maybe Im wanting u to chase me, to really CHASE ME!! Demand my attention,  break down the walls that I have put up, fight for my heart......for now, I will admire u from afar(h) till next time my prince.....kisses

Sounds kind of stalkish, huh? lmaooo     Well Im not a stalker just have a crush on someone that Im too shy to tell them....

Im  gonna be hosting my 1st auction that will start July 11th and end on July 18th...If u wanna be in it, plz send me a PM titled "Auction"

with the pic U would like to use/ ur offers and I will take it from there..There is NO entry fee to join either..I will not tolerate any drama, if it

happens, I will take u out and block you from my page..NO EXCEPTIONS!!!  I will be updating this as the week goes on...any ??'s plz 

leave them in the blog comments..ty everyone xoxoxo

1****** I love to wear mens cologne on occasions, it makes me feel SEXY, BEAUTIFUL....so if anyone has a certain one they wear, tell me and I might wear it, heheheh...

2******Im NOT scared of bugs....I usually dont kill them either, just take them outside and set them free lol

3******Does not believe in ghost, UFOs....unless you can SHOW me in person, then I might change my mind lol

4******doesnt believe in "true" love or love at first glance, give me a break...

5******loves CHINESE food,  sooo freakin yummy, I can eat it 24/7;}

6******wants to rule the world, come on, who doesnt....

7******Im the only one on my block who has a  NHRA drag racing tire as their tree swing......I got it from NHRA Nationals in Joliet, IL..

8******Loves watching Scooby Doo cartoons;}

9******my handwriting type is Hippo writing...

Hippo writing is round and large. The round, large middle zone shows self-interest and often a disregard for the comfort of others. Wide and expansive, the writing spreads out luxuriously like a hippo taking up a large part of the pool......yeah, thats me lol

10*****CHILI CHEESE FRITOS!!! yummy......

If I can think of other stuff, I will let you know,  till then...kisses

UPDATED!!!!!

Ok thought of some more stuff about me.....beware I really might scare you away now lol

**I dispise ringtones....so my cell phone is always on silent, it has been since the minute I got it..its very hard to get ahold of me lol best shot...FUBAR:} just sayin.....

**Im short...5'4:}

**Have I ever been married in R/l...yes...will I ever do it again, HELL FUCKIN NO...the only thing good outta it was my babygirl, my heart, as for him...dont give a crap..

**Im a Domestic Violence Survivor...I was in a abuse marriage for 7 long yrs..I have many scars on the inside and  outside, never again....

**I do own a handgun and now how to use it:}

**I dispise whiney guys, such a turn off...be a man about stuff lol

**First thing I look at in a guy, his arms:} nothing like a strong pair of arms....plus  I love a man who knows the meaning of hard work, like'em when they get down and dirty, hehehehe

**I LOVE heartbroken QUOTES, just cause I use one in my status or pic captions, doesnt mean there is something wrong with me, damn...lol

well thats it for now...wanna know anything else ask, I might answer ya or not:}

YOU KNOW YOU'RE FROM CHICAGO WHEN....


You say "Wanna go with?" when you mean "Do you want to come with me?"

You know what Kennedy, Dan Ryan, Eisenhower, Edens, and Bishop Ford, have in common and curse one of them daily.

You know what "the Hillside strangler is."

You can name three or four extra taxes nobody else pays.

You know the difference between Richard J Daley and Richard M Daley.

You can use two or three Daleyisms in context.

You can imitate the Mayor's whine.

You say Chicaaago.

You think going to a Bears game in single digit temperatures with a wind off the lake (and freezing rain) is fun.

Da is a proper definite article.

You expect corruption in local politics.

You go to the Dells in the summer to get away from the other 20 thousand that followed you.

You've been caught speeding in Wisconsin because you had Illinois plates.

You guard your shoveled parking space with an old chair and unusable broom.

You know why they call it "the Windy City."

You know dead people who voted.

You understand the Democratic machine and don't fight against it.

You've never ever considered the idea of hiring non-union laborers.

You've never been to Springfield.

You know a good gyros joint.

You know what Giordanos, Lou Malnati's, and Gino's have in common.

You know when the last time the Cubs won a pennant.

You know exactly how many cars are "legally" allowed to turn left after the light turns red.

You don't know which ethnic "fest" to choose on any given Summer weekend.

Your idea of relaxing and getting away from it all is Ravinia (with 10,000 others who have the same idea).

You can recite many of "The Blues Brothers" lines and know where they filmed certain scenes.

You consider paying someone to watch your car at a sporting event as just another "city tax."

The "Living Room" is called the "front room"

You don't pronounce the "s" at the end of Illinois. You become irate at people who do

You measure distance in minutes (especially "from the city"). And you swear everything is pretty much 15 minutes away

You refer to anything South of I-80 as "Southern Illinois"

You refer to Lake Michigan as "The Lake"

You refer to Chicago as "The City"

"The Super Bowl" refers to one specific game in a series of 35 played in January of 1986

You have two favorite football teams: The Bears, and anyone who beats the Packers!

You buy "The Trib"

You think 35 degrees is great weather to wash your car!

You know what goes on a Chicago Style Hot Dog

You know what Chicago Style Pizza REALLY is

You understand what "lake-effect" means

You know the difference between Amtrak and Metra, and know which station they end up at. You have ridden the "L"

You can distinguish between the following area codes: 847,630,773,708, 312, & 815

You respond to the question "Where are you from" with a side" example:"WEST SIDE", "SOUTH SIDE" or "NORTHSIDE."

You know what the phone number is to Empire Carpet!

You wear gym shoes, not sneakers.

Your favorite melody to hum is "Bang,Bang,Bang-Skeet,Skeet,Skeet!!!!"

You faithfully attended Lil Louis parties at The Bismarck.

You GOT to have spaghetti at your barbecue.

You are STILL a Bulls fan........

You think kicking it outside of White Castles parking lot, (79th and Stony Island) is the "Freak Nik"

You go to Harold`s and order 4 pc wing, mild sauce, salt and pepper.

You have a picture of Harold Washington in your kitchen, living room, family room or basement.

You have ever waited in line at Home of the Hoagy on 111th for 30-45 minutes for a steak samich wit cheese

You have ever been to the Tiki Room lounge in Hyde Park

You have Y made a special trip downtown because you had a craving for Garrett's caramel and cheese popcorn.

What!!! We don`t get a Fifty? Oh yeah....

You drink at bars called "Bud on Tap" or "Milwaukee's Best" -- no names, just beer signs out front.

It's January and you see someone's kitchen chair in the street, and you know that if you're a responsible citizen and bring it back to the sidewalk you will be shot on sight

You live two miles from work and it takes you two hours to drive there

You don't flinch when you pay the fifth toll of your 45-minute car ride on the highway

When you read a big story in the paper about mob ties in the city government, your first reaction is "So, tell me something I don't know."

You know Lincoln Towing is Satan incarnate.

You've paid $105 for towing, $30 for more than one "street cleaning" ticket, $58 for a city vehicle sticker, and $70 for a license plate sticker -- and chalk it all up to "neighborhood taxes."

You pluralize grocery stores and retail chains: "I'm going to Jewels"; "I bought it at Targets"; "I couldn't find parking at Wal-Marts"

You've taken the Red Line past the point where all white people get off and all black people get on -- or vice versa.

You've cursed at a cyclist, pedestrian, or in-line skater on the lakefront path.

You know the significance of State and Madison.

You wonder if the fries will taste the same at Sammy Sosa's Restaurant.

You don't miss Planet Hollywood.

You're not ashamed of wearing a big fur Russian hat, or a headsock with one hole in it, in public from November through March.

When you refer to "LSD" you don't necessarily mean the drug

School can get cancelled due to both extreme heat AND cold

You still claim that the Sears Tower is the tallest skyscraper in the world

Peter. Francis. Geraci.

You would prefer it if New York just kept Macy's

You actually get these jokes and pass them on to other friends from Chicago...

I love Chicago((true story)) xoxo

ok, just thought I would share some "facts" about me that I dont think anyone knows,  well maybe they do, cant remember lol..anyways,  here they are.......

1****** I love to wear mens cologne on occasions, it makes me feel SEXY, BEAUTIFUL....so if anyone has a certain one they wear, tell me and I might wear it, heheheh...

2******Im NOT scared of bugs....I usually dont kill them either, just take them outside and set them free lol

3******Does not believe in ghost, UFOs....unless you can SHOW me in person, then I might change my mind lol

4******doesnt believe in "true" love or love at first glance, give me a break...

5******loves CHINESE food,  sooo freakin yummy, I can eat it 24/7;}

6******wants to rule the world, come on, who doesnt....

7******Im the only one on my block who has a  NHRA drag racing tire as their tree swing......I got it from NHRA Nationals in Joliet, IL..

8******Loves watching Scooby Doo cartoons;}

9******my handwriting type is Hippo writing...

Hippo writing is round and large. The round, large middle zone shows self-interest and often a disregard for the comfort of others. Wide and expansive, the writing spreads out luxuriously like a hippo taking up a large part of the pool......yeah, thats me lol

10*****CHILI CHEESE FRITOS!!! yummy......

If I can think of other stuff, I will let you know,  till then...kisses

Aries Strength Keywords:>

*~* Independent--very

*~* Generous---was in the past but got used one 2 many times

*~* Optimistic

*~*Enthusiastic---sometimes lol

*~* Courageous--- oh yea;)

Aries Weakness Keywords:>

*~* Moody---I plead the 5th

*~* Short tempered----Im hotheaded, not gonna lie

*~* Self-involved----ITS ALL ABOUT ME, ME, ME!!!

*~* Impulsive----gets me in trouble every time:( *~* Impatient--- after a few minutes, I start pacing and thats never good...

Aries and Independence:>

"Aries personalities are independent. Being the first of the zodiac signs, they venture out and are go-getters, often leading the way. Their upbeat and magnetic personality often entices others to follow their lead because Aries personalities bring excitement into others lives"

                                          ME:

Im a very independent woman who owns her house..(paid-in-full by me, the one of a few things that Im really proud of). I try to bring excitement but Im really really shy till I know you good, the you better watch out, cause I will pounce hard:)

Aries and Friendship:>

"Aries are good friends, they always look out for their friends with caring and generosity and will protect them should the need arise and encourage them with their natural optimism. If confronted, Aries can turn to be quite childish, they will fight back with their agressive nature and are known to have temper tantrums should they not get their way"

                                        ME:

I do look after my friends but Im also very hard on them, thats why I dont have many lol

What it's like to date an Aries Woman:>

"Dating an Aries never lacks excitement. She is hot-blooded, and forceful, so you had better be able to handle the heat! The Aries woman is for the person who likes an independent self-driven woman who can fend for herself and is not clingy and needy. An Aries woman requires freedom. For the Aries woman, the best part of the relationship is the beginning, then the spark is there and she is trying to catch you to be hers. She will find happiness in a long-term relationship because she enjoys sharing everything with her partner. She will not only have a romantic partner but a best friend too. She has a great need for love and passion but she will never let a man become the master, she considers her partner to be equal. Aries women are not for domineering men. She will be faithful but she expects the same in return. She can be jealous because she wants a man to give her all of his attention, "all or nothing", so her jealously is rooted in her possessiveness, she has to be number one in his eyes. She will always encourage and give strength to her partner so an Aries woman is great to have in times of despair or need, she will always be there for you. In order to have this happy ending, she needs to feel appreciated and loved"

How To Attract Aries:>

"Let Aries know that you admire them, they thrive of admiration and followers. Let them know that you love their zest for life and that you find them intriguing, they love compliments more then most other astrology signs of the zodiac. Compliment them physically and mentally, they like conversation about intellectual topics and engage them in a lively discussion, or a friendly debate. They love the challenge and the stimulation of good, intelligent conversation. Ask them for advice, let them know that you look up to them. Remember, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and the most forward and independent, they love followers. Do not be a push over, do not keep your opinions to yourself because Aries will quickly get bored if you agree with everything they say. Do not attempt to control them however, they do not like taking orders. Aries are very capable people so if you go with their plans, you are sure to have a good time! If they have a suggestion for something to do, go with the flow, they like to be in control of what goes on"

                                           ME:

Omg, I cant stress this enough, keep it interesting or you will end up just one of my phases...I love a good chase, keep me chasing you:D:D

And I saved the best for last, as always....

Sex With Aries:>

"The Aries zodiac sign is straightforward, aggressive and adventurous and this is reflected in their approach to sex. Expect it to be physical, quick and rough, they like to dominate and have the upper position"

oh, have I mentioned....I love to BITE;)

My awesome good friend Johhnydevil made this for me. Im all alone this holiday, not by my choice. I had gotten dumped and not handling it very well lol..So maybe someone out there might wanna be my Valentine???

I am the kind of girl who enjoys the chase. I get a thrill when it comes to winning someone over and making them fall in love with me. Then when rough times in a relationship emerge, I run off kicking and screaming. I analyzed my actions once. I came to the conclusion that I'm afraid of getting too close to someone because I'm scared to get hurt. When a boy takes one step forward, I take three steps back. I've done this my whole life. It is my greatest downfall, the reason I have lost so many loves.