I am 42, mother of one girl (19) who lives out on her own. I am currently awaiting my turn before a judge to get my divorce finalized. I am very intelligent, articulate and funny as well as straight forward. I treat others with the dignity and respect that I expect to be treated with. I love to learn, debate and research. I love animals. I was raised in a very european household and I carry on many of those traditions. I am a BBW who is comfortable with who I am and, if you are going to contact me then, you should be too. I am the occasional smoker and social drinker. I am starting anew. I still have my optimism, my sense of humor and my hopes for a better life and new career. I love to meet new people. Just taking it one day at a time. Life moves pretty fast sometimes, if you don't stop and take a look around every now and then you could miss it. Although life is a bit rough right now, you are never given anything that you can't handle.....I just wish that the 'Powers that be' wouldn't think that I can handle so much!