Have you ever noticed that have of the time someone can say something and further down the road, completely do the opposite and even forget what they had said...and I remember growing up ..being told to " say what I mean and mean what I say" well...I think that is hard to follow in our society today...because..people do not even know WHAT they have said ...let alone MEAN it too...I have watched and even on an occcasion or two (that's how I first saw this) have done the same..people not even remember what words they had spoken moments before.
Have we somehow managed the art of a computer software program ..that has been installed and automatically goes through the motions..? In all reality would it not be better for us to actually have been programed in some way to remember and follow through with our words by our actions...Better yet...to actually grasp the meaning of what our words entail, rather than just move our lips ?
I have learned a bit to forive, or should I say allow for the fact that that so many out in our world have gotten to this point where they go on the auto mode even though their processor has not been able to process and follow through with it ...It doesn't mean that they are deliberately misleading you..they lost that connection bewteen mouth and brain..to mobility...
Think about this when you find yourself in a situation you had been in on other occasions and watch what you say and then do...(as with my interaction with my children) Do you do what you say ..rather than mean what you say ..you can mean it wholeheartedly..but to continue and follow through may not be present if you cannot remmeber what it was you said you were gonna do..
Granted this may have confused you and made absolutely no sense to you ..BUT for me..it somehow clarifies what i need to work on for better relationships and show the ability to follow through and KNOW...MEAN..and DO as I say. It builds character and respect froom others I have found out.
