Holding on to your relationship is easier said than
done. You have met this great guy or girl and want to
continue see your relationship grow. But in the
nervousness to strengthen your relationship one
sometimes goes overboard. Either we become too
possessive or take things for granted. So all those
singles out there stop fretting and take some action
to make your relationship stronger and matured.
~Live the Relationship~
One common reason for the relationships going downhill
is that couples can’t connect to each other. How many
times you have heard the statement, “He is simply not
here. Only his body is here, the mind is somewhere
else.” Well if this is your situation then try to live
your relationship. Be alive in it and actively
participate with your partner. When you are in a
relationship the most important thing is to work as a
couple and not as two individuals.
~Don’t be an Attention Seeker~
It is a great feeling that you are in love with your
partner but that doesn’t mean that you spend every
waking moment with your partner. As you long for
intimacy, remember there is also a need to maintain a
certain amount of distance between the two of you.
After all you need some breathing space also. Value
your partner’s privacy and build a separate world for
both of you together.
~Postpone The Thought ‘Marriage’~
One of the most rushed feelings in any love
relationship is to get married in mind long before you
are already married. If your relationship is still in
the dating phase, then simply enjoy these moments. Get
to know the person better and when the both of you
feel that you are ready to take your relationship to
the next level then think about marriage.
~Don’t Force The Relationship~
Force never works in a relationship. If you are
thinking that your partner will suddenly change all
her old habits and be a completely new person then you
are living an illusion. Don’t force your partner to be
something that he or she isn’t. Accept him or her the
way she is and grow together in becoming mature
individuals.
~Take it Slow And Steady~
Falling in love is always a rushed feeling. But this
emotion of excitement doesn’t last for long. Feel the
thrill of the highs of romance in your relationship
but it is best to settle down fast and to let your
relationship grow on a steady pace.
~Don’t Give Up Your Ideas~
Giving up your individuality is never going to help
your relationship. When you met your partner he or she
liked and admired you for what you are. Your
confidence brought the very best for you. So why there
is a need to give up your way of thinking now. It is
right to adjust and make space for yourself but giving
up on your beliefs and principals is only going to act
as a slow poison.
~Open The Channels Of Communications~
Communication is always the foundation of your
relationship. If a couple has heart to heart talk then
your relationship will definitely improve. So say
what’s in your mind and express your feelings to your
partner. With romance, intimacy and togetherness you
will find that this relationship is the best thing
that happened to you.
Peace.