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48 Year Old · Female · From Waukesha, WI · Joined on August 6, 2006 · Relationship status: Single · Born on May 22nd · 19 referrals joined! · I have a crush on someone and 8 different people have a crush on me!
48 Year Old · Female · From Waukesha, WI · Joined on August 6, 2006 · Relationship status: Single · Born on May 22nd · 19 referrals joined! · I have a crush on someone and 8 different people have a crush on me!

I'm so excited to have found this site! My nick-name has been "Cherry" sense High School. Then Warrant came out with there (early 90's) hit song "Cherry Pie". I have quite a few friends here in Wisconsin and almost everyone calls me Cherry. Some people only know me as Cherry. I have a best friend with the same first name as me "Laurie." Were often together when we go out so having the same first name and having a lot of the same friends makes it even more confusing. Sense I've known "Lori" (yeah, it's spelled different) shes had the nick name Bacardi. I don't ever recall a time when I called her up saying "Hi Lori, it's Laurie." It's always been "Hey Bacardi, it's Cherry." Shes an amazing person who has always been an inspiration to me and many others. Bacardi has glaucoma and is legally blind, I'm always forgetting this when we hand out. Most people look at the blind and think just because there sight doesn't work right, there brain doesn't work right either. That is so wrong! She does have some sight in one eye, very little but shes able to see color and even read, if the print is large and whatever shes reading is held close to her eye. She has Katie with her, a dog guide who was trained at Leader Dog. Katie is an extremely friendly, beautiful, black Labrador (that loves her auntie Cherry!!) that seems to be an ordinary pet while at home but when there out Katie is Bacardi's eyes. The things that Katie can do are amazing! She finds empty seats in a crowded area like a cafeteria or auditorium, knows when a stop light changes, finds groceries that Bacardi's looking for, Katie will even push her out of the way of she senses danger of any kind. People are always going to look, talk, or even stair when a dog is in a restaurant or in a shopping mall because it's unusual to see. They think to themselves or put loud it's a blind lady and her seeing eye dog. I never looked at her that way, if I called her a the blind lady she'd probably come kick my ass. My daughter Ashley was young at the time when a mother was telling her son "That's a blind lady with a special seeing eye dog to help her." Ashley corrected the mother "That's not a blind lady! That's my auntie Bacardi and her dogie Katie, she's a Labrador.
Most people would say that my life and what I've been through is really depressing, sad or a real struggle. I would say it's more of a challenge at times, but has great rewards. I LOVE my life, I have a different outlook. I understand why others feel its sad and depressing at times, the bad times are HORRIBLE they really stand out. This is mainly because of my daughter Ashley's illness. Ashley was given a 90% chance of death, I was told that if she lived she would be paralyzed. SURPRISE! My precious angel is as healthy as can be. She has a rare blood disease called Antiphospholipid antibody syndrome. She had a stroke when she was 11, she is 17 now. You can see a pic of her in my folder. She checks the comments left for her pic every so often. She is so happy to see that people are rating her and sending her so much love.

I've had my share of bad things happening to me. I'll tell you what happened August of 2003. I went to my best friends, and my Grandfathers funeral/wake they were the same days/different times. Both died while Ashley was in the hospital. When Ashley was in P.I.C.U (Pediatric Intensive Care Unit) and I'm told she's getting worse & could die, I was getting calls from friends, family members, even on-line friends that heard the news offering their support. I also got some bad news calls. One of my best friends, Donna called to say that her dad just passed away, Donna & I grew up together. Next was a call from my best friend Cheryl's husband. He told me that Cheryl (his wife) died that morning. After I hung up, my boyfriend (at the time) John was holding me. Crying my eyes out I said what next! Am I gonna get a call in the middle of the night saying that my Grandpa died too!? He had been in the hospital already. He was very sick during the last few months. I awoke at 4:00 in the morning to my cell phone ringing, it was my step dad, he said that my Grandpa had died.

That is one example of a block of bad things happening there are more but that is the worst. Fire, burglary, car accidents, abuse, depression, anxiety, divorce, rape just to name a few of the things I've dealt with. HOWEVER, I couldn't even begin to write the countless times I will treasure the rest of my life, some because of what I have been through. I often say "Anything That Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger" I also believe that everything happens for a reason. We may never know that reason.

I'll write more about myself later. (happier times) I would love to get to know more about all my friends here on Fubar. Drop me a line anytime. I'm very open and honest, I look forward to hearing from you soon!
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48 Year Old · Female · From Waukesha, WI · Joined on August 6, 2006 · Relationship status: Single · Born on May 22nd · 19 referrals joined! · I have a crush on someone and 8 different people have a crush on me!
I'm interested in meeting all different kinds of people. I have so much love to give, but at times it seems no one wants it. I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend John, we've been together over four and a half years.


I think that I'm asking for too much at times. My ex husband was abusive in every way imaginable. My live in boyfriend, swears at me all the time when he's not completely ignoring me. He plays on his computer all day. He's addicted to D.A.O.C. I beg him for a few min of his time and I get told to shut the fuck up. I don't feel special, I don't feel attractive. I live for my daughter. I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy again. I'm not saying this for pity or anything like that. I'm saying it because I don't want any of you to take offence if I'm kept to myself or seem distant at times. I LOVE to laugh and smile if only if only the tears would stop.

There have been so many people here on Lost Cherry asking to see my private folders. I've been VERY lenient & allowed access to those of you who asked to view them. However, there's been a problem. For the past 2 weeks I've been getting swamped with requests to see them, about a third of them are from people I don't
know! I've looked where some of them have been on my page (Thankx to L. C's new "who's been here" feature) and I found out that most of them never even bothered to look at the pix I have up in my default folder! After I found this out I figured I have to put up some rules as to who can & who can't see my personal photo's.
Before I start with my new rules I want to say that requests to see my personal pictures are ALWAYS WELCOME COMING FROM MALE & FEMALE (yes, I value the opinion's of my gay, & BI friends as well, If you have a problem with this KISS MY ASS!! You can find a nice PIC of my ass suitable for framing in my private folders) :) MEMBERS OF MY FAMILY, MY FRIENDS & FANS. To me these are my TRUE FRIENDS here on Lost Cherry. The ones that have taken the time to read my profile simply because they want to get to know me better or learn more about me. They rate my pix, leave me comments on them to make me smile, laugh, or even because they just want to. Some of you know me well enough to know that I have a problem with my self esteem. It makes my day to be able to read comments left by them on my pix. The same group of friends that leaves me comments on my profile almost daily or whenever they get the chance. Some of you guys know that I save all the pic complements I get. I put them in a separate folder in my comp. The file name I give the tags is the date it was sent to me on+ the name of the sender. That way I'll be able to remember all of you for years to come. You guys are the best! I love you all!
Now comes the difficult part. I have to make sure that the people I let see my private folders aren't just some random people coming in who I don't know. I have put a lot of thought into this. The rule that I came up with is this. In order to see my private folders you must be a friend of mine, and a fan of mine, you must also rate several of my pics & leave comments. (this is the only way that I know for sure that you were there and saw my default pix) Then if your still interested in seeing them after those things are complete, please send me a private mail letter letting me know that you read about the conditions I have (on my profile) to see my private folders, then standing on your head, singing show tunes, NO! JUST KIDDING ABOUT THE LAST 2! LOL. Then just ask to see them. I will then look around my site if I need to, decide, and get back to you as soon as I can. I may only add you to my family on a temporally basis, I will decide if you can stay on or not. Please keep in mind that I get an average of 50 requests to see my private folders a day. Asking me to see them over a shout box message will only piss me off. Also, please understand that you might see me on L.C, but I had to step away from the computer for a while. Most of you know that my daughter had a stroke when she was 11, at times she needs me & she is always #1 in my life. You might have to wait for me to get back to you, if she's in the hospital I usually bring my laptop along. My profile tells about my daughter's disease in your interested in reading about it. I love to educate about what she has, it's very rare, it's hard for me to see her suffer but I'm ALWAYS there to help her in any way I can. Okay, I guess from reading this you learned a little more about me & about the problems with my personal pics. I'm not trying to be a bitch by saying that you must be a friend, a fan, rate & comment in order to see my private folders. I was really hurt that strangers were asking to see those pics. I feel by doing this is I'll have a better control on who sees them. As always, I'm willing to be friends with anyone on here, regardless if you rate or comment. This sure isn't a popularity contest, & I'm not on here for ratings or to see how many friends I can get. I'm on here to meet new people & make new friends like the rest of you are. The ratings are a bonus to me same with the comments. I like getting them, but there not required to be my friend. I hope that you guys & gurls understand why I had to do this. If you have any comments or suggestions on this please send me PM (private mail) Thank-you, Love & BIG HUGS to you all,
Laurie~ AKA Cherry~ (it's been my nick name of 18 years lol)

I would have to say my Favorite comedian would definitely be Mr. Bill Engvall. I can personally relate to most of the things he talks about when he's on stage. He has the ability to connect with his audience and find humor in everyday situations people run into. Many people recognize his "Here's your sign" act.
Bill Engvall together with Jeff Foxworthy, Larry The Cable Guy, and Ron White make up the Blue Collar Comedy Tour. Four of the most talented comedians each doing their own material. Towards the end of the show after each of the comedians have done their acts, all 4 men come back up on stage. The men discuss each others acts and also talk about some of there own personal humorous experiences, which makes four times the laughs. The last part really puts a nice close on the entire show.
Watch the video below to see the clip Here's Your Sign Christmas By Bill Engvall.



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♠ SOMETHING NEW TO MY SITE ¢¼ I'm adding this for a few reason's. I think it would be great to hear from my family, friends, and fans to actually hear what you sound like. Another reason is that I'm getting behind in my private mail and friend requests. If any of you want or need to talk to me, I will get this message faster. Please don't think that I'm ignoring any of you, I appreciate all of you. ♦ So go ahead leave me a message. ♦ Ask me a question, ♣ tell me of some important mail you've sent, ♠ alert me of something important, ♣ tell me something funny, ♠ leave a complement, ♦ leave a complaint, ♥ tell me a joke, ♦ or just say hi ♥ be creative, make me laugh! ♦ I hope to hear from you soon!♦
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