SoulKiss's blog: "Personal Ads/Posts from my past..."

Cuddle Buddy I know this is a longshot, but here goes......... Cute, curvaceous woman of color seeks sweet, single guy for gratuitous cuddling and affection. Love to embrace, hug, kiss, hold hands, give/receive back rubs and sit around talking/ lie around spooning. Let me be clear: I am NOT looking for a sexual thing just someone to feed my craving for true intimacy and honest touch, someone who genuinely misses the "Affection Connection" as much as I do. Not getting this basic human need met since out of partnership several months ago. Be clean, non-smoking and 30-50 years of age. Serious replies only. Pic 4 pic.

"Lost and found / Missed Encounters" post for someone with whom I lost contact. Ryan - (Gainesville) Ryan, you and I used to get together for occasional trysts for almost a year. You were at UF, but from up North. I was/am older than you, lived in a condo about a mile from your apartment. We were together briefly, lost touch when I started dating someone seriously, then reconnected after my breakup for an even better time than the first go-round. You dated my friend for a while before you met me although we didn't realize that initially. We would watch a movie (Happy Gilmore had me in stitches!!!), have a drink (Cranberry juice for me), make out furiously on the couch (because we rarely made it to the end of the movie) and then to your bedroom for the Main Event on your satin sheets. You were so sweet, very affectionate, fantastic in bed....mostly because you were sensitive and kind-hearted. You were always so...."stimulating". ;) You loved my back scratches, I loved your passionate kisses. You introduced me to something amazing I'd never done sexually with a man before or since. Tell me my name and the DVD I borrowed from you so I know it's you. Although I sincerely cared about you, I don't want to re-enter your life. I just wonder how you're doing. You deserve to be happy. I hope you are.

Hi! I'm a voluptuous, intelligent, attractive black woman who is looking for a great guy between ages 35 and 50 for friendship/companionship. Dating interracially has never been an issue for me: I tend to be most attracted to White or Hispanic guys. I like a strong man--mind, body, spirit--with a sensitive side. Looking for a partner in crime to help me blow off steam because I work too hard! I am college educated, witty, cute, playful, passionate, extremely open-minded, kind-hearted, mysterious, some say exotic, and have a great smile. NOT looking for a quick hook up but to get together for fun grown-up activities in this crazy college town. Have (clean) pics to share. I'm stable, single, childless, homeowner, professional female. Have many interests including: enjoy movies, music, dining out/in, road trips, cultural activities, TV, intense conversation, hanging out with someone who has interesting things to teach me as well as being willing to learn something new. I am easily amused, full of pleasant surprises, a sweet lady with a mischievous streak. Too much to say here so drop me a line. Looking forward to hearing from you!

R U Up 4 it???? I'm looking for a true companion, a guy (35-52) whom I enjoy spending time with, talking to, cuddling up next to. I'm not into playing games and have no tolerance for those that are. MUST be able to stimulate my mind before you ever touch my body. Must be able to use your mouth well... for great conversation and phenomenal kissing. I have interest in cultural pursuits (art, music, theatre, etc). Not much on sports. I love to dance, sing, travel, road trip, check out a flick, listen to music, spend time with old friends, make new friends, eat a succulent meal, converse on a variety of provocative topics. I'm a sucker for the strong, sensitive type or the loveable, funny nerd with the heart of gold. ME: single, never married, professionally employed, educated, independent. Attractive, affectionate BBW who is smart, caring, humorous, passionate, open-minded, responsible but fun-loving. I care about others and the community, love to laugh, emotionally / financially stable. YOU: are a "nice guy¨/ "good man¨ with naughty streak, have intelligence, integrity, a kind heart, wicked humor, good communication skills (expressive / articulate), understand that a great relationship starts with a solid friendship and, to that end, are interested in getting to know me / letting me get to know you. You are also emotionally mature, financially stable. Respectful, respectable, gainfully employed with drive. Be open-minded and have the ability to see the essence of real beauty in people and in the world. (If you like to dance, cook, sing and/ or play a musical instrument----extra points!!!) Absolutely must be a NON-SMOKER. Immediately deleted if: you are married, send a pic of your package, proposition me for sex. Have a little class, guys. Sheesh. Tell me why you think we might click.... and let the magic happen! Pic 4 pic.

Sensual, passionate kisser seeks same.... Most men do not know how to kiss. I mean REALLY kiss....kiss WELL....slowly, sensually, passionately so that your toes curl and your heart races and your hunger builds and you lose track of time and you feel like you could cum from just kissing... Stuffing your tongue in my mouth does not count as a good kiss. That's so amateur. I am an amazing kisser...I have been told many times. I have made men surrender to me by telling him to stay perfectly still and to just let me make love to him simply with my full, soft lips on his. I can leave you breathless, speechless. Can you do the same? I'm a very passionate woman so I'm talented at a lot of things, but I can definitely liquify you with the way I kiss. Because I genuinely LOVE to kiss. It is the ultimate in sexual intimacy to me. Conversely, it makes me absolutely weak to be kissed by someone who truly knows how to work me. I find that a good kisser can only truly enjoy kissing with another like-minded lover---mature, patient, sensual, sexual, tender, but knows when to take charge and devour me completely when he knows I want to be, need to be totally taken, exquisitely seduced. He knows that kissing can be an incredible event all by itself before you ever even remove one article of clothing. If you know how to really please a woman with your kissing style, tell me..... I'd love to hear all about it. Perhaps I'll even let you show me if you can describe in juicy, titillating detail what you would do to me to make me wet and wanting you without touching below my neck with anything but your mouth.... How good are you? Make me feel it with your words...... Requests for sex will be immediately deleted. Talk to me.

Closet BBW love? Okay, what is the deal with guys who seem to love a BBW woman when the doors are closed or the lights are down, but don't have the stones to pursue one when their friends are around? They profess their desire, yet you don't actually see them dating one in the open. Or they want a hook up with a BBW to fulfill some deep-seated fantasy about being with a woman with "soft curves" who looks like a "real woman" but won't go there when they are seeking a real girlfriend or LTR? I'm confused. Someone told me that there is even a good business in G'ville for BBW escorts. Huh? Yet, if you go on Match or Yahoo Personals or some other online dating site and you are more than "average body type" or more than a "few (meaning TEN or less) extra pounds" you are discarded, rejected or treated like you have some funky communicable disease. TRANSLATION: No dates for you!!! Craigslist seems to harbor a bunch of BBW admirers...I wonder if they would admit that if there was not the cloak of anonymity that the internet affords them. A woman like me---smart, beautiful, single, cultured, caring, fun, etc---is left in the dust unless a guy is looking for a No Strings Attached entanglement or a lightning quick and utterly meaningless booty call. (You know who you are! Stop embarrasing yourself!) There are some guys who are emotionally or chronologically (age) mature enough to state what they like in the light of day and pursue a woman who is outside the "norm" of what is considered Hollywood's standard of anorexic chic. These men are, sadly, few and far between while their counterparts, licking their chops in silence, are sneaking around on the down low. Give me a break. I have had boyfriends, to be sure, so I am (and most BBWs are) NOT desperate. I know I have the goods. Everyone is allowed to choose who they are attracted to. I just want to know...what gives? You guys bitch to me about how your stick-figure girlfriend cheated on you AGAIN or thinks she's God's Gift to Gainesville or has as much depth as an oil slick. Excuse me if I'm short on sympathy. Look,I have gorgeoous slim friends. I also have gorgeous full-figured, "thick", BBW, Rubenesque, curvy friends. Make up your mind, fellas. If you like a BBW, then MAN UP and say it, show it. You'd be surprised how much there is to work with not just in body but in mind, heart and spirit as well. Anyone care to enlighten me on this distressing phenomenon???? Sincerely, Beautiful BBW Babe