I found this in my Inbox recently and it literally made me go... I won't say who it's from but I will say it's someone I am unsure I would want as a friend. How could anyone have such a cold, self centered attitude on life and love? All I can say is remember this... You reap what you sow. Now it's everyone else's turn... Let me know what you think? I'VE BEEN TOLD THAT I HAVE USED THOSE WHO LOVED ME THE MOST. I THINK THAT A WOMEN HAS TO DO WHAT SHE HAS TO DO TO BE TAKEN CARE OF NO MATTER WHO GETS HURT. MEN OWE IT TO ME TO BEG , BORROW OR STEAL TO TAKE CARE OF ME. LET'S FACE IT, A WOMEN HAS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION TO BE SURE THAT SHE IS TAKEN CARE OF. WHEN THE GUY DOESN'T MEET MY EXPECTATIONS AS TO WHAT I NEED, THEN IT'S IT'S TIME FOR HIM TO HIT TO ROAD. AM I WRONG TO THINK THIS WAY? ME ON THE OTHER HAND WANT TO DO WHAT I WANT TO DO, WHEN I WANT TO DO IT AND IT'S MY BUSINESS AS TO WHO I DO IT WITH, BUT THAT'S JUST ME. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT IS MY MOTTO.

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 13 LOST CHERRY RULES
April 20, 2006

ONE
If you're ugly,
stop acting like you don't know it.
Also cover yourself up no one wants to see your shit.
The captions under you picture that say
"top model pose"
"sexy bitch"
"aren't i hot"
doesn't convince anyone.

TWO
To the people who have like 25, 000 friends,
are you serious?
Nobody in this universe can keep up with that many friends.
You're stupid.
Go play in traffic.

THREE
Don't ever post pictures and say
"OMG, I'm so ugly"
"OMG, I'm so fat"
because if you were,
you wouldn't post them.
You're pathetic, stop begging for attention.

FOUR
Nobody cares about threats over the internet.
Don't try to act hardcore with the keyboard.
Fighting online is like racing in the special olympics;
even if you win,
you're still retarded.

FIVE
Making 20 bulletins a day
about how you have new pictures
and begging people to comment on them is pathetic.
Make the bulletin once if you have to,
and those who actually care about you
will comment on your pics.

SIX
If all your pictures look the same,
don't post them all.
Please put some variety in your pics.
Nobody wants to see your face
8 different ways.

SEVEN
Who really cares if
I don't accept you as a friend?
MOVE ON!!!
Don't send me another request or message asking
"what's up with you not adding me?"
I don't want you as a friend;
that's what's up!

EIGHT
Little 6th graders who have LOST CHERRY
and look like sluts,
go somewhere else
because nobody wants you here.
Go play with the children on MySpace.

NINE
I never judge race, sex, or age...
but please if you aren't at least 21
don't bother trying to add me or e-mail me.
I'm probably as old as your Parents already.

Ten
Collecting Votes... gimme a break.
Those with hundreds of votes... stop soliciting them.
I don't give a shit about your vote.
I did this for me and me alone. So don't tell me
you voted for me and would I return the favor.
Trust me I won't, but if I did I wouldn't
tell you anyway.

ELEVEN
If you have decided to read this,
you are a true "LOST CHERRY" Friend.
Real friends read their bulletins.

TWELVE
My challenge to you...
I say you go and pass this on
and maybe it will finally get through people's brains
(if they have them).

THIRTEEN
And if you open a bulletin and it says something like
"repost this in 10 seconds or a ghost will rape your dog tonight, "
IT'S NOT REAL!!!!!!!!! QUIT BEING AN IDIOT !!!!!!!!
AND PLEASE DON'T FORWARD THE SHIT TO ME!!!!!

Remarkable Obituary Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Mr. Common Sense. Mr. Sense had been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such value lessons as knowing when to come in out of the rain, why the early bird gets the worm and that life isn't always fair. Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend more than you earn) and reliable Parenting strategies (adults, not kids, are in charge). His health began to rapidly deteriorate when well intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a six-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition. Mr. Sense declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer aspirin to a student; but, could not inform the parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion. Finally, Common Sense lost the will to live as the Ten Commandments became contraband; churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims. Common Sense finally gave up the ghost after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot, she spilled a bit in her lap, and was awarded a huge financial settlement. Common Sense was preceded in death by his parents, Truth and Trust, his wife, Discretion; his daughter, Responsibility; and his son, Reason. He is survived by two stepbrothers; My Rights and Ima Whiner. Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone. If you still remember him, pass this on; if not, join the majority and do nothing.

Well seems my WTF?? Blog might have bothered some people. Well it wasn't my intention. Aren't we all aloowed to have opinions and speak our mind? I spoke what I believed in my heart plain and simple. It as not to judge anyone or to make you think I am better than you. I'm not and I am just as guilty. What I have learned is there are ways of having fun and having self respect at the same time. Anyway if you were insulted or bothered by what I wrote ask yourself why? Did I say something you don't have the balls to say? Did I say something that is true in you and you are ashamed of it? Did I just simply piss you off? I'm not perfect not am I going to judge anyone. If you have thoughts or comments you want to make to me than make them. I won't be offended and am curious as to what you might have to say. Thanks again for your time.

You know I woke up this morning and for some odd reason INTELLEGENCE & COMMON SENSE slapped the living shit out of me. I picked my ass up off the floor and asked, "What the fuck was that for?" The two of them looked at me and just started to laugh. Com Sen said to me, "You really don't know do you?" "Um Hello... if I did I wouldn't be asking." "Why do you want to be like all the rest? Look at them... pathetically doing anything for attention. Playing whatever game it takes to get votes and points. Not one of them would toss you a rope if you were drowning." I sat down on the floor and leaned against the wall to think. Intell and Com Sen knelt down in front of me. "We aren't trying to hurt you or spoil you having some fun. We all need that in life and we need to know people care about us. What we don't need is to Whore ourselves out to get that." Intell's eyes were intense as he continued to speak. "Do you think there is any intellegence in people when they put some of the pics they put on here? I mean the internet is huge and the chance of someone they know seeing them is greater than ever now that so many use the internet. Imagine the reaction of family or friends when they see the pics posted of their loved one and friend. Not to mention how that just baits the Online Perverts and Sex Predators." Com Sen looked up to Heaven, then with a sigh said. "God what has happened to our values and morals? I do not deny people the right to do what they want but they should at least think of what it can do." He then shared this story with me. A single woman with a young daughter decided to join an online dating site. Being all new to the internet and the online dating scene she followed her heart when creating her account. She never dreamed that there could be any harm or danger and these sites must screen their members. She was totally honest with what she wrote about herself. She listed her true city she lived in, the job she held, and even children and pets she had. Then came the picture part of her ad. She picked a picture of herself that was most current. Deciding she wanted to continue being honest she proudly added a picture of herself and her 6 yr old daughter and the family dog. Once she had her ad all set she went ahead and posted it. Barely 2 weeks later she had this very handsome, professional man e-mailing her. She was amazed at how kind he was and truly thought he was the man for her. He stated though that he was over 500 miles away from her but was still interested. To her credit though he was so perfect she was still cautious after several friends told her to be careful. First he wanted to talk to her on the phone and asked for her number. Now they had only been talking about a week so she explained she needed a little more time. He agreed but still occassionally tried to persuade her. Within a week more he said he was feeling a lot toward her and wanted to come see her. Again she declined asking him to be patient. She told him she really liked him but wanted to give it some time. He was less understanding this time and made some comments that made her feel uneasy. Well after a month's time she realized he wasn't all he said he was. She started avoiding him and not reply to his e-mails. He got pissed and showed it in the subject line of e-mails because she started just deleting them. She was really scared and finally decided to delete her ad form the dating site. Things were quiet for about a week or so. Then one day she opened her personal mail and saw an e-mail with the subject line. "You think you can hide?" She had saved up all the e-mails and such when he started getting crazy and she told a friend about it. They decided on Monday they would talk to her lawyer and the police. (This was on a Friday night.) That evening she took her daughter to the movies with another woman and her daughter. While at the mall she noticed a man at the coffee stand. When the man turned to walk away pure fear raced through her. It was him, or was it? How could it be he said he lived 500 miles away? She tried to turn away and hurry into the theater but it was too late he saw her. He glared at her insanely but as she turned to her friend to tell her he vanished. Shaken but still not sure and not wanting to dissapoint her daughter they went to the movie. They got out when it finished, no sign of him. Maybe she just thought it was him. They drove home with nothing strange happening and went to bed. During the night the dog awoke and wanted to go outside. Not thinking about it and knowing the dog had done this before she let him out. She waited and waited but he never came back. She was in panic and called her friend. She told her friend about the mall and they called the police. With all the info and a picture of the guy the police started checking into it. The next morning the woman got an e-mail again from him. She opened it and he simply said... "How easy it was to get your dog... your daughter will be even easier." Now imagine the terror she felt. Again calling her friend and the police with this new information. Turns out he was a registered sex offender. Fortunately enough he wasn't an intellegent one. They were able to trace back his e-mail ip address and find out who he had internet service through and then where he lived. Within 2 days he was in jail. Thankfully he never harmed the dog. The man ended up going back to jail for kidnapping the dog, harrasement, and a few other things they could throw at him. What the woman learned was how easily someone can be someone totally different than what they say they are online. She learned that stretching the truth about things like location, job and family until you really know someone isn't lying it's just plain smart. She knows now that life is hard enough on our children and that she doesn't need to make it harder. Six months later with the help of her friend she tried the internet again. I'm proud to say that with a new approach and using safe measures she did meet a wonderful guy. They took it slow, used public places to meet and with friends, and after a year relationship got engaged and married. So there basically can be happiness and sincere people online... but there are even more freaks, predators, and dangers than we realize. Com Sen looked at me and said, "I know you aren't out there dating nor are a lot of others but do you understand now how deadly it could be?" "Have fun, make friends but be intellegent about it. You don't have to be naked, talk like some sex God, or use fake pics. Be yourself and if people are worth being your friend then they will be. Otherwise they aren't worth your time or effort." Intell smiled knowing that his message had been made. They both reached down, took my hands, and helped me up. I thanked them for the lesson and for helping me realize that who I am is someone worthy of true friends. I don't need to be a number or a rating and I don't need to let my behavior show my LACK of Intellegence and Common Sense. I can't make other's see it like I do now. All I can do is stay true to myself. Just know that ever choice we make has a consequence. The question is... Can you live with your's? Be Real, Be You, Be Happy