look im in the navy and let me tell you that it is no fun at all. the navy has a tendency to take a good person and turn them into an asshole and not reallize it. for example one of my friends brought it up to me that I used to be a very careing person and now he tells me that im an asshole at times. I now have tried to change that but with the navy being like high school all over again that can be very hard to do. now dont mistake me for being something im not, I am still more thoughtless of myself than I should be but thats what happens to people and it my sound funny but thats also almost the standard. I mean when most people join they expect to do better then they are doing but then they join and they find out that it becomes a let down and they change. look my point is that if you join or want to join then talk to someone other then a recruter about what your getting your self into. or you may not like what happens to you.