On November 3, 2003 I lost my best friend because her own father killed her. He walked into her and her husbands home shot her husband, then her and went to his own home and killed himself. No explanation just did it! Her own father! Do you think she would have let him in that day knowing he was going to kill her? No I think not, so before people start blaming Sporks for being involved think about what you are saying.....we aren't mind readers we never know what's going to happen because we think we know someone.