Wow, it sure has been awhile since I have wrote on here. I am sitting here bored and I have a lot on my chest so I am guessing this is a good time to maybe get it all out and maybe some of you all will leave comments to tell me if IM right or wrong for acting the way I have been lately. I promise not to make this too long!
Sometime in June of this year I decided to move out of my father's house and move in with the boyfriend that I have been with a little over two years now. I felt bad for his brother and him because they help take care of their mother and uncle. Carlton and Chris' father passed away in November of 2009. Their mom pays $500 of the rent and that is all that she pays. The rest of her money she blows at bingo. It's ridiculous really. I wish I could stay home all day and just go to bingo and spend about $30 a night and go 5 nights a week. I mean you do the math on that. Sometimes she spends even more than that. Oh, and the uncle doesn't pay a friggin dime towards anything. He lays in bed pretty much all day. We are lucky if he gets up and does the dishes in the sink. This bothered me but not as much as the next paragraph!
About a month ago Chris (Carlton's brother) met this girl. They hit it off pretty good. After a week after meeting this girl she moves in. Even after typing this it all sounds like it was set up. She said that her mom kicked her out of the house. I believe the whole time was just an excuse so she could move in. Anyway, so this girl lives here right!?! She DOESN'T have to help pay any of the bills or anything. She does buy some food for the house on food stamps but I don't get no choice of food or whatever I want. It's like a one sided thing. How is it fair to me!?! Am I wrong for being pissy lately!?! As I sit at my computer many nights I just sit here and wonder why I feel like I am being used. I feel like I am not wanted here. I'm only wanted maybe because I do pay a third of the bills. I stay pretty much to myself. I don't care to be around certain things when people are in a room. I feel lonely. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep for no reason. I had a dream about the ex the other night and it really scared me. IM thinking he has gone down the wrong path once again! IM not worried that he will get locked up again, but IM just worried that he is going to end up dead somewhere. When I had a chance to get with L---s (You know who you are) I should've jumped for it. I jumped too late now. I know you have a girlfriend. So that was my luck. I mean I really do love the one that I am with but all the shit that goes on at the house I don't know how much more that I can put up with or what to do. I have told him if I move out that I am done with him. It's like his brother tries to control everyone. Well, I have news for him! He sure as hell aint going to try that with me. So the question is do I need to calm my butt down and do what I need to do, or say screw it and move out. All comment welcome!
Carlton and I planned a small trip last week. So this weekend we went on a small trip to Nolan Lake. We went to work Friday and we rushed thru our area so we could head out. We left for Nolan Lake about 8 pm. We finally got here about 10 pm. We had a few stops to make along the way. After a few minutes of being at the house we were staying at Carlton decided that he wanted to take the golf cart for a spin. He said the place where we were goes in a complete circle. So there is no way in getting lost. That is still hard to believe since all the roads look all the same. So about an hour after getting back of riding, we went to bed.
Saturday comes early! I get woke up about 9 30 am with breakfast. Carlton had fixed sausage gravy, sausage patties, biscuits, and potatoes. It was pretty good. After I ate I laid down for awhile longer. I usually don’t get up until about noon or so. So 9 30 am was early as heck for me. I got up around 2 30 pm and we were just talking and hanging out with his family. His father, mother, and grandmother also came. Around 4 30 pm dinner was being fixed. Cheeseburgers, hotdogs, macaroni salad, and Doritos were served. I know I got full. I had a plate and a half. Then I wanted to go swimming. Soon after asking Carlton if we could go swimming I put on my bathing suit. We were going to go ride on his uncles boat but we didn’t have the key to it. So I just jumped in the lake. It was different for me. I have never swam in a lake before. I didn’t think that I would like it. Actually, I didn’t even want to get out. I had a fish that decided that he wanted to nibble on my left arm. Every time it nibbled me, I jumped. When no one was around Carlton and I decided to have a little naughty fun in the water. We took a few pics and even a small video. LOL. There isn’t anything more fun than naughty watersports. But after about three hours I decided to get out. I wouldn’t feel too comfortable going swimming in the dark in this huge lake. So we came on back up to the house.
Now, dark has finally fallen. It is around 9 30 pm and we have a small fire going in the backyard. We are going to roast some hotdogs and marshmallows. I think I am going to go out and have a few marshmallows. I haven’t had any since middle school. That has been many years ago I guess I could say. I have a feeling that I am going to have a early bedtime. Swimming really wears me out. But I am going to continue this sometime tomorrow afternoon. Goodnight!
Okay, I am back for the final time in this blog. We are about to head back home in the next hour or two. I already finished getting all my things together. I know one thing I woke up with one hell of a headache for sure. I hope it goes away soon. I guess it is the allergies down here since I am only in the woods. I know I am hungry but I am going to wait until I get to Louisville before I stop somewhere on the way home. I hate it when I am hungry but nothing sounds good. I am tired of all the fast food places really. I know some meatloaf, potatoes, and green beans sure sounds delicious. But not we are waiting to get ready to leave so we have to wait on some odds and ends to get done. I think Carlton wants to get some more pictures before we leave. So we are going to get on the golf cart one more time before we leave.
Whew!! I am finally home. My headache is slowly trying to go away. I am thinking it was them damn allergies were getting to my head. But I think I am going to call it a day. Off to bed I go!