I am 25 years old with three beautiful children. They are my life, they are what keeps me going. They come first with me and always will. Me and my ex are best friends and at this point will be a decent part of each others lifes. I know thats not the "normal" for divorce, but I feel normal is over rated and this is the way it is, like it or not. If you can't accept that... sorry! I am a soldier in the US Army fighting the good fight! I have five years service, and two tours in Iraq, behind me. I am starting fresh in life and I am not sure where I am going from here.