About me?! Damn, that could fill up a few volumes and I can't even scratch the surface in this little space!!

I'm happily married for the last 13 years and also have a lover (more like a second wife) besides my wife. NO, it's not cheating because my wife is fully aware of her and the two of them are lovers as well. Not just a sex thing, we love each other and have a great deal of fun other than sex. We all share the same interests, philosophy and attitudes about life....think of it as an extended marriage. We've all know each other for the last 14 years and are family.....even if it's not your concept of family. We are NOT swingers! The more appropriate term would be polyamorous. I've never cheated on my wife with anyone and never would, we all entered into this relationship after much discussion and reflection about feeling that might come about. To say it's complicated to most people is an understatement, but to us it is right. Each of us compliments the others' abilities and preferences, and we love each other a great deal.

My wife and I have four wonderful children (2 girls and 2 boys) whom we love above all other things, they are our life. We spend just about all our free time with them talking, playing games, helping with homework and all the other things that so many parents today seem to miss out on.

I am on fubar to make new friends, maybe flirt a little and to just have a good time. I don't cyber or any of the crap.....did it 20 years ago online and it was boring then, so I won't be asking to do it.

I have two college degrees, one in psychology and one in sociology, but I do not work in either career field due to the lack of positions and lack of pay for the positions there are in this area. I currently work in the Environmental department of a large steel mill. The job is basically boring, but the pay is very good for the area. I do still do research in my degree fields and write papers for professional journals, however. I used to give lectures at area colleges and universities, but lack of free time has all but put an end to that over the last few years.

I have only one tat (although I will be getting more soon), but I do have a LOT of piercings. The pics I have of them are only for family members because of the nature of where many of them are....lol.....DEFINITELY NSFW! Other interests include computers, nude art (NOT PORN, I don't like porn), bondage, bdsm (Dom), and I am an information junkie - I read things constantly to learn new subjects. I also write poetry although I rarely share much of it as I use it to work through very personal inner feeling that I normally will only share with those who are close to me. I may, from time to time, post an old one on my blog though.

My life is pretty much an open book, other than a span of a few years when I was NOT a very nice person, so feel free to ask anything you like and I will answer as best I can.

Thanks for dropping by and I hope to talk to you soon.