How can you tell if you're really in Love with someone,Or if they love you?!?! I really like this guy,But we live in different states.We talk on the phone alot,& sent each other pictures & letters & such.Hes working 2 jobs & we dont get to talk much! I wish I could visit him or he could come visit me! I cant really tell if our relationship is going anywhere! ...I dont know! Sometimes I wonder,"What is love,really?"...