Been together 14 years and don't want to mess up anyone else's relationship. I'm white, 5 10 and about 160lbs, light brown hair and green eyes. I live in a house with a person who still wears my ring - but that's as far as it goes between us. We haven't been man and wife for over 4 years - not lying, I have no need to. My wife and I have no sexual relationship - and she is acceptable to me finding another friendship for that, and she is also looking for her next Mr Right too. I have 2 rules, I can't bring anyone home and I can’t embarrass her in public - these are reasonable and I follow them. We stay together currently because it is still a good environment to raise the kids, better I feel than two single parent homes, and the fact that it is cheaper to run one home than two. We have become like brother and sister, we don't argue or shout. That being said - do not read this as meaning that I'm only looking for sex or a one-off meeting because nothing could be further from the truth. I am greedy; I'd like a best friend, soul mate, and a sex partner too. I want it all lol. I can't resist a pretty girl with tattoos and piercings; I'm at your mercy if you have both. I hope to find the person of my dreams and can’t wait to be with her forever. I'm looking for the right person, and then watch me spoil her.....