someone please help me and tell me that my kids will not be monsters forever......lol for anyone that has two girls should know what im talkin about. my 2 oldest are girls (11&8) they fight like no tommorrow and whine and cry. i am so afraid of the dating years. i think i will find a corner to hide in.....lol dont get me wrong i love my children with all my heart, but i think when they hit a certain age they turn into something i dont know. so by all means if anyone has the book on parenting....lol or any great advice please feel free to leave some.