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| | I'm so confused |
| created @ 03/11/2008 10:34 pm |
| mum expired. [EVERYONE] |
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So I started dating Shawnda about a month ago. Things were great!!! We were both very happy. And then suddenly about a week ago she comes up with this "You're too secretive" bit. And it brings her fears of another guy hurting her and her son back out into the open. And so there's major lack of communication up until yesterday when we try to work through things. And things seem to be going great.
So then this morning she asks me something about my past and being completely honest with her, as anybody in a relationship should be, I tell her exactly what it was in my past. And now she thinks that I've done nothing but lie to her and live a lie around her... like I'm only there to hurt her.
I don't know what she wants. She doesn't want me to keep anything a secret... including the things in my past which I'd much rather leave there because I'm so ashamed of them. Doing so would constitute not being completely honest with her. She doesn't want me to lie. Again, not being honest. And yet when I tell her the truth, I've been living a lie in her eyes.
Not sure if I should ask if I should keep hoping that she'll come around and realize how much I do love her or not. Not sure if I should ask if she's overreacting or not.
I'm just so confused about what she wants and what I should tell her. I believe that God brought us together into a loving relationship for a reason... but it seems to me that her fears are driving her away.
Guess I'll ask...
Is it her fears that are driving her away from me
or
Is it just the fact that I'm a complete jackass that's absolutely good for nothing but to be blasted by a bunch of who gives a shit about anybody but themselves replies cuz this isn't a real mumm?
And for those of you who do care... any and all advice is welcome, whether in comment, or private message. Thanks. |
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