Me:Kind, geeky, kind of geeky ;-P, conversationalist, good listener, in love with my wife of 18 years. Retired Army after 20 years of service... My second career will be as a techno-dork in the IT industry in Hawaii pretty soon... NY born & raised but now live in Hawaii for good, 9 ball, ultimate frisbee, artistic roller skating, healthy & trim... easy going, love to have fun, drink socially and sometimes too much because I'm a lightweight ;-P. Always speak nice to people, will only yell at work, and only if absolutely necessary for abominable performance... Treat everyone with kindness, don't care if you're beautiful or not, I will be nice to you if you're nice to me... Oh, and if I add you as a friend but don't really strike up a conversation please don't be offended, I'm really too nice to click decline with no real reason... If you message me I will gladly pay back the effort and talk with you, at length if you'd like, and about anything... I don't discriminate against any group or practice or individual, so if you think you're too weird to talk with me you aren't. Ons:Good conversation with an intelligent, articulate and intriguing lady... It could be you so say hi and we'll find out ;-P. But I am in love with only one woman though, and that woman is my wife Yvonne... she's my first true turn-on, my beautiful goddess... I melt with her touch, it's always like the very first touch... Not a single second passes without her and I together in my mind... Offs:Macho assholes treating women badly or talking ghetto trash to them... In case you haven't noticed, women don't stick around too long if you don't treat them with respect, at least not the kind I want to hang out with... people that only say "sup" or don't really have anything interesting to say... poor written communication skills - typos are no biggie, I make them myself here and there, but if I cant make sense of your grammar or your spelling is too pathetic to understand, then please go take a brush-up course and then we can talk. Note: Bad spelling while drunk is ok if you're a beautiful woman. ;-P... I will give you many chances to meet my minimum communications skill standards, so don't be scared to talk to me... I'm really actually way too nice to say anything if you're trying...