No im just kidding... but I just recently became single. Out of a 5 year relationship. I thought I could make things work because I was in love but I learned that sometimes it is better just let it go because after 5 years it still wasnt working... sometimes you think maybe people will change and become what you want because you made changes for them but that doesnt work (trust me I know). So yeah just a little advice if it doesnt work then it doesnt work dont put years and too much effort into it. that doesnt mean dont try it just means dont waist alot of precious time on something that you know in the end wont work even if you believe you can make it work.