i need some help!, anyone have any advice on how to handle your better half when their going through midlife crisis. its killin me slowly and hurting our family.i feel so alone in this.he has pushed his family away, he has cheated,lied,started drinking.seem's like he hates his kids..he make's excuses why he doesnt have time to talk. he make's time for everyone else except for his family. (including the person he having an affair with).he will lie to me and tell me he's gonna do paper work and i find out different,he turns his cell off when he's at her house. god what do i do? im tired of cryn everynight.please help me :(