ican remember back in march 1980, when iwas a passenger on a snowmobile, and we were in an accident,i spent several weeks in the hospital in traction cause i had numurous injurys, and one being as i had a broken pelvis, amonsgt other things, i still think about that time oin my life and remember what i went through, there was this guy that came in the hospital he was in a motor cycle accident , and he was givign the nureses a hard time, throwing stuff at them . and cussing at them.i was on my way to recovery from my injuries, ,when i over heard a couple nurse talking about how ill tempered this guy was, well i told them that i would stroll down the hall and take a look, well i went to his room. and he looked at me , at the time i was using a walker, he said what happend to u? and i told him my story. he just looked at me when i had finshed, and say wow man ur lucky to be alive. and then i looked at him and said i am, and you should consider yourself lucky too. and that he needed to quit actin like an ass, and stop feeling sry for his self. as i had been down that road myself. and it took me 8 weekd to realize that. after that the nurses never had a problem with him again. the nurses asked waht i said to him? and i ssaid oh nothing really, just remined him of how lucky he was is all, lol. so i guess what im sayuing here is, if you think you have it bad, or know some one that has, then stop and consider yourself lucky, as it could be alot worse then you realize.