It is simple. I try to be nice to everyone unless they give me a reason not to be. I try to never hurt anyone's feelings. I will always try to listen. I am 40 years old but a kid at heart. I have been HAPPILY married for 20 years. My wife and I have three children one of which is married and about to have our first grandchild. can't wait to see him. All three of our kids are girls, lord help me, and we love them all. I like visiting other people's profiles and checking them out but I do not try to talk dirty to anyone. I am not into that unless it is my wife ofcourse. I don't mind people putting sexy stuff on my comments area but no nudity please. I served in the army for 7 years and am very proud I did. Now I am a correctional officer at a prison and have been for nine and a half years. My wife is going to school. She has just over a year left. I hope she is able to find a job. I would hate to know she did all that hard work for nothing. And that is me. Thanks for reading.