My name is Gibborim, feel free to add me, Comment me, Shout at me, whip me ummm errr hehehe ok not the whipping yet :P Ya know the deal.
I'm more of a night person till I relize it's morning then have to get ready for work grrrr. COFFEE helps hahaha
I pretty much keep to myself till I get to know you.
I am a Donor to my Wife which she is a Sang and Tantric Vampyre and she is the best person that ever slammed into my world.
I'm a Swinger, no one should be kept on a leash unless it's a real one and thats what they like ;-) My Wife and I are both straight but are very open minded people and open to one another. Comunication is the key, if you don't have it, you don't have shit.
I belive in the true aspect of Free Will. 93 93/93. I do not speak much of my beliefs, I leave it to others to figure out and understand.
I moved here to Savannah, tauted as the most haunted city in America, in January of 2006. The stench of decay in the air gives Savannah its haunted credibility, whether its from the paper mill or the marshes, who really cares? It lends itself to the atmosphere along with the ancient oaks dripping heavily with Spanish moss and low lying fog during the sunless hours. Its almost perfect here.
On the issue of "Swinging" (as stated on my profile)".
Just as I keep my dayside/nightside seperate, so do I keep my swinger/vanilla life seperate. Just because I'm a swinger, DOES NOT mean I, or my Wife, are out there to fuck every abled body out there. Persoanl boundaries MUST be respected! If my lifestyle offends you, please leave my page, I will not tolerate those who are closed minded or judgemental
Rules From the Husband
Do not approach only my wife, we are a couple, and since I have final say on who I share her with, it's best to approach me first.
Do not tell my wife that you can give her something she has never had before, it can't be done.
Do not be possessive with my wife…don't touch, kiss, or fondle her unless she says it's okay to do so.
Don't be pushy; we will let you know if we are interested in inviting you to play with us. (Begging is so unattractive, don't you think).
Remember she is MY WIFE, not a single female and we are a couple, show respect and be a gentleman.
Rules From the Wife
Just because I smile and say hello, does NOT mean "take me, take me, take me! I want your hot love muscle right now!"
When I say "No, thank you" in front of my husband, DO NOT assume I am then going to jump you and fuck your brains out the minute hubby leaves the general vicinity!
NO MEANS NO!!!! On a date, at a dance club, at the grocery store, at a party, OR in a swinger's club!
Just because I may occasionally play with someone besides my husband SURE AS HELL does not mean I WANT TO PLAY WITH YOU!
My body is MINE! DO NOT touch it unless I tell you its okay to.
If, after both my husband and I getting to know you, we decide to include you in OUR sexual play activities, REALIZE this is an extremely RARE PRIVILEGE! And treat it as such! Show us BOTH respect!
If we DO decide to play with you, and you do not treat it as the privilege it is, but instead talk about it to everyone else you know, TRUST ME, we will be your LAST swinging partners. No one likes guys (or girls) who kiss & tell!
If, on the other hand, we decide to play with you, and you are every bit as mature and respectful as we hope, and we all have a wonderful time, you can probably look forward to many more good times ahead!
Don't think because I have played with you before that you have the right to play with me every time we see each other. Don't flatter yourself. You may not have been that good.
Just because I talk to you or dance with you doesn't give you the right to fondle me or touch me or kiss me. Ask first. Be a gentleman.
If I invite you to play with me either alone or with myself and my partner, do not think you will be running the show. We play on my terms, by my rules; or we don't play.
Rules from both Husband and Wife
DO NOT get attached. If you seem to be getting emotionally attached to one or both of us, you can expect us to start distancing ourselves. Do not take this personally, afterall, WE are a married couple, what you experience with us is purely recreational sex.
We are NOT looking for a Triad (ie: Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.).
Please respect that we keep our Swinger and Vanilla life (non-swinging friends) separate. Do NOT bring up the swinger issue, verbally or physically, when in mixed company.
