i'm confused, how do you know if some one is your soul mate? and how is it possible to love one man that you have nothing in comman with and then scared to leave him because you dont know whats out there an dyou dont know if its gonna be worse or better then what you got. How do you just let go? ecspecially when you feel guilty for leaveing him even if you know shit aint right between yall. How do you deal with crying yourslef to sleep each night with all this shit racking your brain and having to make up a storie so he doesnt find out and he dont worrie about you. How do you let go of someone you have been wit for a year and a 1/2 knowing hes a good man and you dont wanna let that go cuz you dont know about the next man.How do you get yourself to just move on?