Welcome to the new addiction!! Its rough to keep up with at first, but once you get the hang of it its a trip. Quick run down, you earn points on just about everything you do, if you rate, someone rates you, accept friend request, someone accepts your request, post comments, ect. The more points you earn the higher you move up levels. you can buy gifts and receive gifts! The bar tab in the corner tells you everything going on from who checked you out to who rated and posted comments, the shoutbox is like im between fubar people. Have fun and enjoy!!!!