Ok, ive been keepin this pent up anger for a bit now,
Weakness.
–noun
1. the state or quality of being weak; lack of strength, firmness, vigor, or the like; feebleness.
2. an inadequate or defective quality, as in a person's character; slight fault or defect: to show great sympathy for human weaknesses.
3. a self-indulgent liking or special fondness, as for a particular thing: I've always had a weakness for the opera.
4. an object of special desire; something very difficult to resist: Chocolates were her weakness.
—Synonyms 1. fragility. 2. flaw. See fault. 3. penchant, passion, hunger, appetite.
—Antonyms 1. strength.
Now that the meaning of Weakness is clear, I am so Effin' frustrated with all of this relationship bullshit, that has been surrounding all of my wonderful girlfriends and some family members ( I do not need to say your name.) All of this, emotional distress, because of their fear of loosing something they believe is truly theirs. Now being 20 losing, is part of life don't you think? Its not the end of the world if your boyfriend leaves you, there are other Men, not boys, out there. Sure they can be harder to find. But well worth the effort. The transitional stage we are currently experiencing, leaves us feeling like THIS IS IT. We aren't in the times of our parents or grandparents. Getting married young isn't something that is deemed acceptable by society anymore. So why the FUCK are we rushing to get into something serious with anyone. We should be concentrating on making strives towards our Future, making ourselves strong & independent women. Who any man would consider a gift to even speak with us. If we cannot stand on our own two feet, how the HELL are we going to support ourselves if our "Boy" decides to leave us? We wouldn't know what to do. I just think we should stop waiting around for "Our Boys" to get their shit together, and stop hoping for that Stupid fucking prince in shiny armor, and do things for ourselves. Its a time where women aren't helpless anymore, We even have a woman trying to run for the Democratic seat, for the Presidency of the United States. What does that tell us? We do not need a GODDAMN thing from anyone and can do it ourselves. Over 66.6% of students in college now are women. Go out and do yourself a favor and get on with your lives Ladies. These men we are loosing tears and calories over are certainly not worth it. Love yourself before you even think of anyone else, if you don't love yourself who will? Who knows maybe I'm just angry, that my wonderful friends can let someone in to a point where they feel this way. I just believe they deserve better.
With love
Me
