A few other things that get me hot...
Seeing strong hands doing something kind... like holding a child, or petting an animal.. or playing an instrument.. damn that gets me fucking hot.... I love hands...
Concern.. I love it when someone is concerned about me.. it's not the fact that they are worrying about me.. it's the fact that they think enough about me to be concerned about me.. so that is hot.. that goes with compassion too.. I guess.. But hey, no one said I couldn't be redundant
Someone who isn't afraid to express their feelings..... that's hot..
Someone who gives a shit about someone else besides themselves.. that's fucking hot...
Whew! I think I am done..