I don't know where to start, but I guess my name will do. My name is Matt I am 26 years old and currently reside in Newark NJ. I was born and raised in Bartlesville OK and moved to Jersey when I was 13 when my parents divorced. I am currently in school after leaving school in 2008 do to personal reasons. I enjoy hanging out with friends and doing things that are worthy of my time, not really a drinker or much of a party head. I would rather gather round the grill play games and socialize without inhibitors. I came to FUBAR via some spam message I got in an email. All and all it seems there are a few good people here along with a lot of attention whores (if this is offensive to you you're probably guilty) and drama filled BS...I laugh at statuses involving so and so will cheat on you or whatever..what do you expect you met a guy or gal on FU and you expect them to be faithful? I shouldn't have to buy someone bling or any of that crap to have a true friendship or relationship with them for that matter. I would say 60% or better of the guys on here spend almost all of their paychecks on women that are using them for that sole reason. Using people for personal gain is not only selfish but inconsiderate of another persons needs. Females that have bling statuses like I WANT THE NEW SO AND SO BLING IT IS SO CUTE!1!!1!!....that shit is so annoying go out get a job and buy it quit looking for some desperate fool to take your bait and give you something of no real value to yourself and is pointless. Now if they had a button to donate to a children's hospital or cancer research then I would be more than glad to donate some of the money that I work my tail off for.