why i am on this site is....i want to meet someone who is natural, caring, loving, romantic and knows have to have a laugh. I love romantic slow music....i could play slow jams and classic mellow soul 24/7. The late great Barry White, Teddy Pendergrass, Luther Vandross...my word the list goes on. My hobbies are reading, travelling, movies, dinner, cooking....walks in the park. Just a quick one.......We all have a chance to meet someone very special but to have a real good chance...some of us in our 40's should open our horizion a bit more and look deeper into what really makes two people click. Some just want a Muscular body man...some want a tall man...some want a tall dark and handsome man. Most of that body beauty will not bring you happiness at all but rather a lifetime of misery. Look deeper into the person's values....principles...and you will stand a very good chance of finding your lifetime partner.....do trust me on this one...Just For you ladies....who really want a real go at love. As the great late Marvin Gaye said.....lets get it on.....