Is it possible to find love on a dating website? Let's just say that I am doubtful, excited, skeptical, curious, hopeful and most of all dying to find out. One thing I don't believe in is "meant to be" and those three words are like fingers on a chalk board to my ears. If you want something soooo bad, YOU have to make it happen whether it's finding love, your career or your car keys.Oh and one more thing that I find quite hilarious, I recently saw a profile on here where one beautiful lady was trying to tell the guys that they need to be clean shaven before they approach her because a recent poll said facial hair is out of date.. Now with that in mind I ask, what if a guy said you need to die your hair red before you contact him because red is in and that's the only color he will consider? Wouldn't that sound a bit arrogant? Would you wanna date him or slap him? If you gotta change someone that quick, you better keep looking. Enough of my ranting.I'm a fun loving guy who likes to enjoy life and the little things it has to offer! I loveeee to travel! I love a new adventure. A movie at home on Friday night and cuddling is just as good to me as going out...although I enjoy that too. Being a guy I of course love sports...especially college basketball and football. I like the beach and love to para-sail. Tennis is fun even though I'm terrible at it. Skydiving is something I'm working on building my courage up to do.I work as an Installer and deal with pipelines . I do travel sometimes but not as much as I would like! LOLI am also an aspiring writer.Dogs are by far my favorite animal but if you really insist I might be able to love a cat...lolI like to call myself versatile. lol I travel occasionally with my job but luckily I never have to stray too awfully far. I see a lot of women on here specifically require a "job" and yes I am fortunate to have one that I like. .I love kids so if you have them that's fine with me. I have one who is wonderful. I feel that if I ask you to accept my kid then I sure as heck better accept yours. I'm undecided if I want more but it's something to talk about.I'm looking for the right girl who understands what the term 50/50 really means. I'm looking for a girl who can finish my sentences for me and know exactly when I need that hug! Hopefully she will like to take long walks and meet me for lunch on a whim. At age 43, life is too short to waste time. While dating and getting out is fun and I love to meet new people. My goal is to eventually find someone with the right chemistry and see where that goes. . I'm not into any bad habits that I know of lol..I think my friends would describe me as a good guy, sociable and fun. I take care of myself by running and working out on a daily basis. I'm six four but you would never guess it. My bad habit would probably be being too gullible sometimes and trusting too much. I love being a dad. I love the sound of thunder when I'm sleeping at night.I do have a kid but I am fortunate that due to his age and situation I have an extremely flexible schedule.