right we got off on the wrong footin yesterday, i'm usually not so rude, BUT you pissed me off. my life is mine and i don't care for people trying to stick their noses' into somthing that is none of their business. if you were genuinelly concerned about steve's behaviour towards me and many others on here you would have messaged them in private, not tried to make a complete show of a wonderful person. the only thing you have succeded in doing is making a fool out of yourself and proved that what he has said to his friends is true. steve has been nothing but honest with me from the day i met him, he has told me everything about his life for the last i don't know how many years, the good and the bad bits. i know the history between him and trav,(and if trav didn't want to be with his dad, you know full well he wouldn't be, because he's as stubborn as steve) i also know what it's like to raise your kids on your own with out any emotional support from your family and that's what he's had to do from the time trav was young. steve is more than my friend, i love him to death and nothin you say is ever going to change that. he's a good man with a big heart, it's just a shame that none of you can see that.
do not use my website as a platform to argue with your brother. if you have problems with him take it up with him but i refuse to get in the middle of it. and I refuse to allow my website to help either of you argue either case.
I wasn't judging you, I said nothing about you except that no one wanted to hear what you have to say, because all you are doing is what he keeps saying you are doing. You are attacking his friends, and telling his business like no one knows. Obviously he is honest because you have said nothing that I didn't already know about what he does except you are being nasty about it. I wasn't making anything out to me"cherry coated" I simply said that if you feel he is hurting her then you do what you need to, but leave us out of it. It is not your place to be telling everyone that. Once again his personal life doesn't concern us except what he wants to tell us. And yes it is true, I do work and help support my family and I have a lot going on in my life and Steve has been there for me just as much as I have been for him. Regardless of how you or the rest of your family feel, you won't change how I feel about him, I love him to death because he is there for me. He expects nothing more then for us to be friends. You won't change that. Nothing you say will change the way I feel about him. The reason I say you are trying to ruin his life is because you are trying to get all of his friends to not talk to him anymore. I don't care what you say he has done to the family, I have heard from him and his ex what his family has done to him. So I won't allow you to come in and try to control whether he and I are friends or not. He is my friend and he is real.