Life is to short to sit around ad feel sorry for what you don't have. I am old fashioned in a lot of ways. I believe in holding a door for a woman and treating a lady like a lady, just as my momma raised me. Life has been hell at times for a lot of us and I've had to remember the positive things in life to keep me going. Everyone finds their nitch in life and I guess I've found mine so far. My life is spent enjoying what life brings with my 12 yr old son when I am fortunate to have him on the weekends. I have a lady who drives me insane at times but I wouldn't trade for the world unless decides other wise. The world is what one makes it and yes I guess I'm a bit of a philosopher, but at this point in life I am extremely happy and content. I wish more people could say that. I live for family, good friends, relaxing days, and a good cold beer now and again lol. I wish everyone the best in their search for the same. A wise man once said .. PARTY ON DUDE!!! I do believe he knew how to live!