I woke up one day + discovered I wasn't 25 yrs. old anymore. now when did that happen? I just turned 50 yrs. old and survived it quite nicely, thank you very much!! I’m thinking 50 is not at all what I expected. So far, it’s better than 25 yrs. was!! I was divorced 7 months ago.. love and marriage do not always co-exist the way they do in fairy tales,<~~~DAMN!! I still believe in fairy tales, Santa Clause, the lock ness monster, and TRUE LOVE with all the trimmings. before the before mentioned marriage, I was a single mom for 16 yrs. I have 3 kids, + 1 of his that I claim. I raised her so she's mine. waving Hi to my Tiffany. my children are the most amazing people I know. I am in my very first apt. by myself. after living in a log cabin in the country. what a change!! I'm fun loving, I love to laugh. reasonably pretty, of slightly above average intelligence, a natural nurturer.( I spoil people) (a lot) I am socially conscious (which means my soapbox is paid off). I am spiritual and creative. I am a happy Catholic (yes, they do exist) I love the arts, stage, books, all animals, politics‘. RODEO’S, SEMI’S!! heavy equipment…I think I’m in awe of huge machines cuz I’m so small. Motorcycles.<~~~ But being the contradictory woman I naturally am, I’m a wimpy butt about riding. I like movies and music, trivia games, ebay, CLOTHES!! I have clothes for every mood I have. shoes!!! hey, I'm female!! get over it. I am a good cook, and a good eater. I am as comfortable in dress's as I am in jeans. I own both pearls and work gloves!! I am caring and demonstrative, outgoing in public. I have been accused of never meeting a stranger but oddly enough, I'm shy at first in one on one situations. I'm Irish/Indian, almost 5'1", 100 pds. I have a temper, which is mostly sent over the top by lies, or injustice but I also know how to say I'm sorry when I'm wrong, or just sorry. I do not say things in anger that I will regret later. I am the domesticated breed of wildcat, if you don‘t understand that sentence, you would never understand me I am MOM to my kids and all their friends, hopefully best friend/partner/sex kitten to some amazing man in the near future, and buddy to 90% of all females. (I am not one of those females that put other females off) I'm from Oklahoma, Tulsa to be exact so the cowgirl was born into me, the smart-ass was too!! also honesty, a code of ethic’s and action that has nothing to do with what is popular at the moment, rather it is the way I live my life. I’m not overly judgmental, and I can’t tolerate prejudice.