I like to think my life is good, I have a great family and a son who is now grown and a wonderful network of friends. I am a bit of a work-a-holic and am trying to find someone that will take me away from that. I know what I want and hope to find the one who wants the same as me. We all want and are attracted to those that interest us so if you are interested, attracted to me and can give me the things I need then I would like to talk to you.

My family is very important to me so you must be family oriented. I like to go to local events and to go and do things with my family and friends like cookouts, parties and festivals. Not much into the bar scene but I do love going to comedy clubs. As much as I like spending time with my friends and family, I do enjoy having a man to share most of the time in my life with.

I love music and if I was ever stranded on an island all i would really want besides another person is a radio and enough batteries to keep it playing. I like most every type of music from classical to rock (which is my favorite). I just think music helps to make life better.

What am I looking for and what interests me?? I need my mind stimulated with good conversation. I am looking for a man who can take care of and handle me physically.

I am a very open and honest person. I don't say anything I don't mean or intend to do. I am very passionate. I need a man that excites me and teaches me new things. I don't like to hurt people and appreciate the same in return. I want to be treated with respect. I am looking for someone relatively local. I don't do long distance well. I am not good at waiting when I want something unless a job or deployment takes you away and then I will wait.

I don't care if you drink but prefer you not be a sloppy drunk. I enjoy comedy clubs/shows but don't care for the bar scene. I like to go to festivals, block parties, cookouts, shows, and to parties with friends and family. I also enjoy seeing the local sites that every city has to offer. I love learning and will welcome anything new you can teach or show me.

I think we should be able to tell each other what we want or are looking for without offending the other because in the end it is all about what we want for ourselves.