Well, let's see...I am 28 years old (knock knock knockin on thirties door). I have 3 demons...err lovely little angels I mean (cough)..a 10 yr old and twin 9 yr olds. I've been separated from their father for over 4 years...so I'm a single chick. I was working in retail, but just accepted a position in an optomitrists office, and I am looking forward to what opportunities it will bring for me. Yeah yeah I know whatcha thinkin...borrrrrring...lol, but hey I can always spice up my life in (ahem) other ways, right?As for who I'd like to meet, well first and foremost I'd like to meet awesome ppl that love to laugh...but never at anyone else's expense. Other single moms would be a great addition to my life...just cuz they know the crap I go thru too...lol. Now that THAT is said and I have proven I am not "on the prowl" for a guy...I will get to the GOOD part (grin). What I'd love to find in a guy is really pretty simple. The short version: a guy with no homicidal tendancies, the ability to tell the truth before I have to torture it out of him, and has a genuine emotion or two for anything more than sports and cars (btw, horniness is NOT classified as an emotion no matter what your buddies tell you). Ok short version was for you guys that don't like to read much...for the detailed version by ALL means plz read on.... Did I mention that I like guys that like to READ? ...so ya already got some points by reading this far...lol. Literacy is a big plus in my book. Now, what I am looking for in a guy detailed version: I want a guy with a BIG .............................. Heart (gotcha didn't I?) He's gotta care about ppl and how they feel. I need him strong and able to take pressure, but he also needs to have a huge weak spot for the woman he loves and their family. I want him to make me laugh when I've had "the worse day ever" yet again. I want him to hold me as close to him as he can manage, not because he thinks he's supposed to, but because he wants to with all that he is. I want to see tears in his eyes when I tell him I Love him for the first time...and the only thing that should be as special as that is to see the tears there the first time my/our children say it to him. All in all, I am a fun chick...but I want the simple things in life...I just want a guy that feels the same way.