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Journals View all 6 journal entriesMY 2 CENTS N IM DONE Tuesday, February 24, 2009 10:39:44 AM ok this iz my 2cents on the whole "Why he comin at me like that? I aint no hoe!" situations i been hearin about on tagged. Now first off lets do a lil logic...if i owned a store, and u ask for pepsi, but there was coke in the bottle...thats false advertising, right? or if i was in the street with a problem, and i ran up to you cuz u had on a cops uniform, and u weren't really a cop that would be a problem correct? well here's the thing...alot of women have these pics in their profiles with azzes pokin out, t*ts fallin out shirts, half naked, blah blah blah u get the idea. these things promote sex! so what do you think happens when a man see's these things? even if he doesnt say it out loud, in his mind he's thinkin "damn! i wanna hit that!" so he goes thru the proccess and hits you up. Now my thing is how the fu*k you have the nerve to catch an attitude cuz some dude hit you up because of lookin at "YOUR" pictures, when your pictures give off the vibe that you too wanna fuck. Even dudes who know how to properly approach a woman may not say it right away but you better bet ya bloomers that if offered, he'd smash too ha,ha,ha i mean lets all be real with ourselves....Not one man on tagged is here for the "conversation" no matter how many times he tells you that. some have hopes that tha cute shorty we send taggs n luv 2 might jus wanna c what were like n :REAL LIFE" feel me..nuff said Anyway long story short....u can "want" to be treated like a lady, but that's hard to do when u have on a whore's uniform in your pics. **don't just catch an attitude...think about it** please feel free 2 get at me im all ears SEXXY? Friday, February 20, 2009 3:11:27 PM Who says what sexy is or what it is not. Who says that sexy is a certain size and a certain shape.? Who says that sexy is a certain color? Who defines it. Can someone tell me who wrote the "This is what sexy is " book. I would like to pick up a copy of that. As usual I am not writing for a specific group of people, I am writing for the sake of thinking out the box. I am always trying to get people to see things from a different angle. As i sitting in the car the 1 day at one of my spots this woman passed by.,She looked at me and gave a nod and lipped the words Hi' how are you? I in return did the same. But there was something that was so attractive about her, that I could not take my eyes off her as she walked out of my sight. Now I know one of the first thoughts that comes to mind is, what was she wearing and how was her build. Let's see........It was very windy out and the sun was not as bright as it normally is. Which means it was not a hot day it was a little cool out. The woman had on a sweater and pants that were a little fitting around her thigh area but not tight. She also had a light leather coat. Her hair was long and came down to her shoulders. Nothing fancy about it, in fact it was just a simple do. She had on heels but they were not that high. She wore make-up , but it was not caked on her face, it was just enough to enhance her features. A very beautiful woman she was. Her smile was that of a model's smile. Simple I know, Nothing stood out about her. But there was something about her that made me watch her for so long. Her build was not that of a model and no she was not a size 6 or 8, In fact I think she was more like a size 14 16 maybe more. The clothes she wore did not seem to be the top of the line, the coat she had on did not even seem to be real leather. Her purse was not D& B or Louis. But there was something in the way she carried herself that made her so sexy to me. I looked closer at her and I noticed the way her body spoke with every step she made. Her head and shoulders were up and str8. This was indeed a woman that knew who she was and where she was going. She seemed to carry herself with such respect, that her presence demaded attention. Notice I did not say she was driving a fancy car. So the thought of her having money was not a factor. I thought she was the sexiest thing i saw that day. Confidence made Monique...... into Hally Berry It was then I realized that sexy is an attitude, and its in the eyes of those that are watching. It was not what she said to me that turned me on, I could not hear her over the music and with the windows up anyway. She was just plain sexy. I am not knocking smaller women, or what anyone eles may think is sexy. I am just stating an opinion. Yes I like my women a little on the thick side, but I also like slim women. I tend to look more into a persons mind than body. I perfer to know how big your heart is compared to your measurements. Someone is going to read this and say " He is just running game " Well I feel sorry for you because you are the type of people I have been trying to reach....the close minded people. Sometimes we think a way because we have been taught to think that way, or we are trying hard to be a part of the " IN Group". But as you mature you should get to the point where you are your own person, one that thinks for himself or herself. My point is really not about being sexy, it s about being confident in WHO YOU ARE. WHAT YOU ARE . the Beauty of a Woman is not in the clothes she wears,the figure that she carries,or the way she combs her hair. The Beauty of a woman must be seen in Her Eyes, because that is the doorway to Her Heart - the place where Love resides."NUFF SAID! SPEAKING OUT LOUD! 4 those who need 2 KNOW! Friday, February 13, 2009 11:50:37 AM I know way too many really beautiful girls who think they don't look good... It hurts... because it's our fault, guys I mean. We make girls feel like they have to be perfect. You know what I mean, flat stomach, big boobs, round booty, long legs, sexy lips, and on top of all that, they have to dress like a wh@res, and be one as well... nobody can measure up to that... and its not fair... because nobody should have to. Girls prefer being called beautiful instead of hott or sexy. The little imperfections are what make people special. If everyone was perfect the world would be so boring, variety is what makes life interesting. So guys, stop making girls have to live up to your, I'm sorry, our... deluded fantasy visions of perfection. Stop acting like boys and start being men... realize that women don't exist to fufill our sexual desires. Stop talking to them solely to get with them, be nice to them because you want to be their friend, not because you want to hook up with them. Say nice things about them not to flatter them in hopes that you'll get some, but because its true and you know they like to hear them. In short... we need to grow up and stop acting like freakin little boys. Not every woman on Tagged is on here to get laid!!! They want a friend, and understanding friend that will respect them. NOW IM JUS SPEAKING OF SOME THINGS I'VE SEEN ON HERE N FRANKLY IM UTTERLY DISGUSTED WITH HOW SOME OLD FOOLS R TEACHING THOSE 2 YOUNG 2 UNDERSTAND (U KNOW WHO U R) THAT OUR WOMEN R 2 B DISRESPECTED & THAT ALL THEY ARE IS VESSLELS OF OUR SEXUAL CONQUESTS, not tru!!! SO IM JUS SETTING THE RECORD STR8 LIKE MY DAD& MOM TAUGHT ME, HOPEFULLY THIS MSG WILL GIVE MY YOUNG/OLDER BROS A REASON 2 TAKE A STEP BCK N TREAT OUR WOMEN LIKE YO MOMMA TAUGHT U 2..ARETHA FRANKLIN SAID IT BEST R.E.S.P.E.C.T. THAT IS WHAT OUR SISTERS NEED FROM WE! Romance and Relationships Friday, December 12, 2008 10:06:33 PM What's good peeps I'm jus kinda venting on this due 2 ah few real life situ's I got n2 that kinda needed their own explanation from ah guys point of veiw about shortys n not all cats would agree but hey I'm not speaking 4 all of us..but if I were perhaps she'd b tha luv of ya life nstead of ya bustdwn...ha,ha,ha..njoy n maybe learn something.... 1st let me say this... We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it ticks us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls texts you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till morning Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we fu*king mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in. let us pay for you! dont "feel bad"We enjoy doing it.It's expected.Smile and say "thank you."Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed(hint) You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hott Morris Chestnut, Brad Pitt, or taye diggs is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care.....(think about how u feel when we start up how fu*king fly eva mendez, nia long or any other hot actress is in front of you, You have girlfriends for that. Get my drift? Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I'd be utterly stunned by a shorty who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; ) ha,ha,ha Also "getting some" is not the only thing EVERY guy cares about. Girls, proof of this is if a guy will wait for you to be "ready" to "take your relationship to the next level" Not all guys are the same. And we're not all perfect either. We're only human. Mami's, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. That's only 4 underwear n hairstyles ha,ha,ha..but 4 real ditch his sorry, disgrace to the male population butt and find someone who will treat you with utter respect Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it. Also Give the nice guys a chance.... they may not b all gangsta with it but what u may think is good 4 u is prob tha reason you aint as happy as u wanna b(food 4 thought...since when u ever heard of ah sensitive thug..hmmmm?) Ok enuff venting... Girls holla if ya feel me The Good Man Project Friday, December 12, 2008 9:47:34 PM What makes ah good man? Now the reason I ask this is bcuz n my line of work I bump n2 many ladies(most quite attractive also n they all difn frm 1 another..but there's 1 thing that it seems they agree on That there r no good men..hmmm..now of course bn ah man myself I understand y they say that 2 a point,but does that stand 4 all men? I mean does ah few rotton apples set the basics of tha rest? Allow me 2 b personal with u, I had ah situ once where I found myself questioning what was a good man?...now don't get me wrong I used 2 b a dog..(if u will).but I decided when I got out my teens(oh how so long ago that was ha,ha,ha) I was gonna take relates more 2 tha heart..u knw no more game playing...get real n find tha rgt woman n walk hand n hand with her thru this life (always side by side never behind me cuz a tru queen should walk bside her king no exceptions) any way as u can c that didn't quite work out tha way I planned....n belive me I thought I was bn A GOOD MAN" but I guess that was wrong cuz she played tha fu*k outta me..(n yall wonder y we dogs)she had me open in all sorts of ways..(yeah I aint ashamed 2 admit it) she wasn't tha best type of woman either she diffn had her flaws..but she was so close 2 what I wanted perhaps many of u can understand this (some 1 who can understand tha life of some 1 who is n2 music scene, who can b secure n herself enuff 2 deal with tha fe-fe's always tryn 2 get at me.. she loved everything I loved so it's only natural that I loved her as well (yeah I said it...) ...she was also.fun 2 hang with despite tha fact she lived with her "babydaddy" who constanly called whenever we were 2gether even tho she said "they wasnt 2gether" or tha fact that her "best friend was tha same man she had bn secretly sleeping with 4 tha past yrs(it was b4 me n I knwn all about it b4 we really got close , I jus belived n her that much...OMG!!!!!) she still was 1 heck of ah women 2 me .so I took tha hit on tha fact she bn a foul mouthed semi-bi-polar chain smoking weed head (sweet dreams r made of this ha,ha,ha)...2 me it was a fair price...that's what really made me hurt when it all ended..bcuz even if I allow certain things 2 pass I still ended up getting tha short end of tha stick but still I didn't let that sway me frm my goal which I'm still tryn 2 make that happen...now here's tha funny part. how is it that I can fu*k u but u can't trust me 2 b ur only 1...always gotta have tha ace n tha hole huh? It seems tha world has chged so much over tha yrs since our parents were dating each other... is it jus me but can u jus get some skins quicker than u can get ah commited woman (OMG!!! ha,ha,ha) any way b4 I get 2 n2 this my question 2 my friends is what makes ah good man? Cuz man ah brother tired of guessing so please enlighting me...holla