I dont think you will hurt me...not intentionally. Ill be sad when you go, very sad. I know that. But thats different than your hurting me. You havent lied to me, you havent misrepresented who you are, or anything else that I know of. Those are the things that hurt people. The rest are accidents of life that no one can foresee or prevent. What you do about them is what matters. There are no guarantees between two people. You can only do the best you can...