I am a 48 year old single, white, female & mother of two fantastic teens. One has and one who is in process of leaving the nest so eventually I will be looking for a more committed type relationship. Commitment does not mean marriage necessarily just someone is devoted to me and cares enough about me to spend quality time making me happy. Because of my past both of my grown children are quite well aware of the lifestyles I participate in and are ok with it.

As a submissive female: I am looking for a Dominant man who can not only take my breath away but take my control away as well. I have to be in control for my job, my family and myself and just need to let go of that to gain my sanity back. I have done the whole abuse thing so I am not into high end pain, piercings, clamps etc. I am more into light spanking, bondage/ restraints. I do have limitations on what I can do because of my abusive past both physically and sexually but I am working on those demons everyday. As long as that Dom is in control of me, he never needs to fear that I will try and top but you also need to embrace the woman that does desire being in control of men. Details will be explained later.