ALLisLOVE Growing more each day. Had a real spiritual awakening yesterday when my wife woke in extreme pain. I was also getting pain in my opposite shoulder and focused to release it. For the first time i completely let myself feel her pain and it drove me to tears but at the same time my ability to free my pain was now totally focused on hers and she started feeling better. Have yet to have this conversation with her. Still listening for how to convey. I've been empathic since birth but only since my wife and I got married have I grown to understand my purpose.