'm highly extroverted,rather confident,usually sarcastic,very talkative and often a fountain of unsolicited advice,I'm brutally honest to a fault. I think,I speak...I seem to lack that sugar coating filter that others have.I do pride myself in that I can take the ugly truth as well as I give it. So when I'm in the company of a mature adult we can simply talk things out like grown ups. I'm a 48 year old So, please, forgive me if I have a tight schedule to work within when trying to meet up with you. I'm VERY open minded and a strong supporter of alternative lifestyles having a right to do as they like. I'd like to say "I'm not judgmental" but,let's face it, we all judge in one small way or another.... I know I judge bad parents with brat kids chubby girls who buy clothes 2 sizes too small. I am seeking a LTR or possibly someone to share my life with. A best friend, lover and witness to the greatest moments of my life.It's important to me to have a partner that finds me very attractive,gives me compliments,massages and plenty of affection. I'm a romantic. I'd do these things for you. I'd like to meet someone who is as into me as I am into them. I have a high sex drive but I'm also not a slut that'll hop into your sheets right away. I'm a man and wish to be respected as such. When I find someone I trust and connect with...my kinky BEAST will be unleashed! I think trust, OPENNESS and honesty is a MUST! I'm a completely open book,I don't ever have hidden passwords, pin numbers,a sacred purse of secrets or ANYTHING to hide with a partner if my partner is like minded I'm not AT ALL jealous. I clean, iron clothes, dishes, gardening and all that crap. I'm OCD on the home front, I've got a system for everything domestic. Rather than impose my idiosyncrasies on a partner I like to take care of the things that I'm anal retentive about personally. Yes,I CAN and DO kill bugs,open jars, change tires,fix things in the house and mow the lawn (looking sexy while doing it) but I'd love to have a woman in my life to help with those things. When I've got a partner I like to try to find a genuine interest in his hobbies as I hope he would with mine,if we can't truly enjoy it together...you still can. Alone activities or with other friends are healthy for a couple. I'm easy going that way. Things are cool when we have enough shared interests as well as a desire to spend time together TO BE COMPATIBLE WITH ME: You've got to love kids,,love music for every mood,appreciate a productive and active lifestyle,be adventurous,appreciate and give affection,have some shared interests with me,be intellectually stimulating to me,be chivalrous,be ambitious and educated