I am an educated, well traveled, Captain Sergeant Major, independent, optimistic, affectionate, intelligent, passionate, emotionally stable, I have an amazing life, excellent health,a loving son . I am an honest, smart and a very straight forward person, l am not comfortable around people who beat around the bush. Reserved but fun, and loyal. I have a very dry sense of humor. I have been called courageous and I definitely seek challenges. I am inquisitive by nature, I need to know why. I love to learn new things. I am interested in many things- psychology, philosophy, philanthropy, science, history and politics. I dislike unnecessary rules. I am not conventional in most of my attitudes and values.I tend to be pragmatic and like spontaneous people. I am comfortable and secure in my own life but to grow you have to go outside your comfort zone and life is about growth, hence my being on this website. I believe integrity is very relevant to me. I enjoy life everyday