look Dan is my friend..I can judge him for myself. If he is what you said then just move on and be happy about it. Its not your problem anymore ok? Let the rest of the world judge him for themselves and go based on what WE SEE not what you say he is. If you want to provide me proof of this police report I would be glad to give you my email and you can send me a scanned copy and then maybe your words will receive some credibility but for now your just coming off as a woman scorned. Move on..find someone that makes you happy. There are going to be many relationships in life that don't work...just move on.