I enjoy long talks or chats, and enjoy making others feel good by making them laugh, or get turned on by my words. I can't believe that I am all that much different from other guys. I have been known to send several long messages at a time, but my motivation is always one of three things; to add humor and make you laugh, to add excitement and get you turned on and horny from my words, or simple to relax you and reassure you that I am sincere and always respect my partners and never want to hurt anyone. I am not a weak person , but rather highly observant and I try to gauge my actions based on the comfort level and reactions of the other person, and take charge accordingly. Is being compassionate and caring a turn-off, rather than being pushy and harsh.
I love sex, but am not looking for a quick fuck or one night stand. I enjoy connecting on an emotional and personal level in addition to just the physical level. Kind of like close friends that both love sex and enjoy giving each other pleasure. I don't believe in rushing into something in the heat of the moment, but rather taking our sweet time to thoroughly pleasure each other to multiple climaxes. Maybe I care too much for the other persons feelings and want to avoid hurting them, and get carried away offering them words of encouragement. Deep down I just respect and care for my fellow human beings, is that too unusual?
