I do believe in Serendipity. This word was coined by the eighteenth-century British writer Horace Walpole, who defined it as "that quality of mind which through awareness, sagacity, and good fortune, allows one to frequently discover something good while seeking something else." It is an attitude of mind and heart that attracts and enhances joy.

I have a bubbling personality, almost like a glass of Champagne, tons of energy and positive outlook at life. Do I feel down sometime? Absolutely. But I manage to bounce back to Optimistic ME twice faster than I did when I was 20 years old.

I try to live everyday to my best, and I honor and appreciate what I have in life and everything others bring into my life. In fact, I celebrate it in the people of my life.

Also I am living a very healthy life, eating healthy natural foods and taking a great care of my body. It's important for me to have a partner with a similar approach to health.

I think that a woman can bring much more than a 'toned' female body to the relationship. It's beauty that radiates from the inside out. I am not just a hot body but evolved, interesting, intelligent, emotionally healthy, and successful. And success to me is measured by the amount of love in your life. I am not in competition with the female side of the planet. I am in peace and in love with myself. I'm delighted to be ME and celebrate YOU the way you ARE and not will be someday.

In the future ? I see the Hawaiian coast. Waves splash against the black rocks below us and every now and again, sprays our faces. We sit arm in arm together for an hour, not having to speak, just soaking in the beauty, the serenity, our joy at just being together...

I'm far cry from anything divine, but I continually strive to be better today than I was yesterday. Treating others the way I like to be treated. Continually developing in matters of the heart and mind.

I am looking for an equal, for a soul-mate so we could connect with each other on a deeper level and could share the best things we have. I am looking for a life long connection, it is not just chemistry and not even just love, and it is much more that I can express in words, but the one who meant to be there for me - will understand me without words?

My match is spiritual, compassionate, gentle, educated, intelligent, passionate, kind, fun, has a sense of humor, is optimistic, positive, open-minded, authentic and confident. He is looking to meet a woman of his dreams, believes and allows serendipity to bring her into his life and is ready to experience relationships, he never had before, - full of unconditional Love, Trust, Respect and Joy. Periods of Fears and Scarcity are in the past.

P.S. Also I must admit that even though I am very spiritual person and recognize a human spirit in myself, I still have a human animal in me, which is usually attracted to tall men with broad shoulders, big arms and a contagious smile. We probably will not be a good match if you are an atheist or expect me to go to church with you every Sunday and if your dog sleeps in the same bed with you…

***Also due to a large amount of letters I receive, I will only reply to you, if I can see us as a possible match. Also I am currently Kenyon St NW Washington but wide open for relocation and absolutely flexible to travel. And if u are still interested, plz write me. Smileyguy07@yahoo.com